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Old Mar 05, 2013, 10:16 PM
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Today, I asked my boyfriends to come over sooner. I called up for him twice. He didn't pick it up, then immediately texted me "not till 12".

We skyped he gotta see his ex - now his best friend and say goodbye ( 'cause she's going back her hometown.

It hurted me at the fisrt time when he texted, not telling the truth. I guess he must be with her. Why didn't he pick it up his phone? Tell me regardless of texting. Or she might be at his home. My intuition's mostly right. I feel what's going on.

My feelings are mixed. Give him space, but I still feel sad.
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Old Mar 06, 2013, 01:07 AM
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you are not the only person who is part of a couple where one has doubts about the relationship they are in. If you feel you can sense ur bf body language, then you have to let go of the doubt and feel confident in ur bf being true.

Don't waste your time on things in the future that often can't be controlled. If you feel this text incident is important to you, then a good time, no interruptions, to it calmly.

If you wish, you can PM a member ask their opinion on when you practise what you wish to say.

These are suggestions, take what you like, leave the rest behind.

Perhaps more PC members will drop by and offer suggestions.
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Old Mar 06, 2013, 02:52 PM
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Quit the dependency on modern devices for communication. Spend more personal one on one time, to get true feelings.
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Old Mar 06, 2013, 03:10 PM
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I really dislike it when ppl cannot or will not be real or up front.

sorry this happened.

I hope things resolve.

Carol
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Old Mar 07, 2013, 04:16 AM
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Thanks, all guys. After that, he told me everything, what he did. Everything was fine. I feel better.
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