[Aria11]

Hello...Im new here... The last two years were really tough for me and a couple of months ago, horrible things have happened to my life all at once.My best friend was diagnosed with leukemia,my father had an accident that caused a severe trauma to his brain,and my brother died.Im still in shock.The doctors dont allow us to tell my father about my brothers death because of his condition and both my mother and i ,dont know what to do.We are so afraid that he'll hate us for not saying goodbye to his son.We also have to deal with rumors about my brothers death ( many local blogs on the small town i live wrote that he comitted suicide besides the fact that the police concluded it was an accident).We feel like they dishonor his memory and the police says they cant do anything about it.Also, our neighbours give us a really hard time.They owe us money and they treat us like its the other way around.We need that money for my fathers medical bills and i m so pissed them.I feel like im living a nightmare,it so overwhelming.How will i cope with all these?I lost my hope that good thing swill happen to me in the future.I feel like nothing will ever change.Please help me.

I have never been in a situation like that but I really feel for what you are going through. I'm sorry I don't have a concrete solution for you. I really hope things get better soon. The only thing you can be sure about is that it will change.

[avlady]

Aria111, i feel so awful for the situation you're in, it must be so hard to handle all that at once. My sister comitted suicide when she was 17 and people just kind of thought alot of bad stuff about our family, I myself also had TBI from a few accidents i was in where i got head injuries. I will pray for you to be able to handle all of this, i really don't know how to help you, besides telling you i've been there before too and hopefully you can handle all this, good luck

[Aria11]

thank you so much guys...its still hard but i m trying to handle it...i feel like my brother is helping us from wherever he is right now...merry christmas to you all,and may we all find some inner peace soon...im so happy to here.Threre are so many good people out there and that gives me some closure...thank you for all your good words end your empathy towards me...i hope the best for you too...

[Thunder Bow]

Moving out may be wise for you. Be by yourself for awhile. Seek people and a place that is far removed from your situation and location.