[TheJettSet27]

It's just so hard to look him the eyes you guys
Just seriously
I'm all awkward around him and stuff.
This isn't my normal way of talking or anything but I just needed to get it out there.
I definitely like this male friend of mine who I've been friends with for about a year now (we're both high school sophomores) and I'm just...mindblown
I've never really liked anybody before so when I finally realized I had feelings for him I was taken aback.
*sigh* tis' the season to be hurting fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-blah.
It's just so hard you guys
Halp
How do I deal with this?
(And I'm not cutting off contact with him. We're friends, not strangers. He's probably suspicious already, doing that is just a deathtrap.)

[Switch]

This is probably not what your expecting to hear but I'm happy for you. Being in love is so wonderful! enjoy it. Does he like you back? Have you asked? Would you want to date him or is this just a what if crush?

I like you very rarely got like that around people, but I think every time you spit means something. Not that your going to end up married or even having a successful relationship but it's still very fun and although heartbreak sucks it can be worth it. My only advice is, as always, stay safe.

[TheJettSet27]

Originally Posted by Switch

This is probably not what your expecting to hear but I'm happy for you. Being in love is so wonderful! enjoy it. Does he like you back? Have you asked? Would you want to date him or is this just a what if crush?

I like you very rarely got like that around people, but I think every time you spit means something. Not that your going to end up married or even having a successful relationship but it's still very fun and although heartbreak sucks it can be worth it. My only advice is, as always, stay safe.

I have not asked if he likes me back but I think he likes this other girl. He's liked her for a long time from what I've heard. I'm not absolutely certain but it's a definite possibility.
I would want to date him - if he asked.

[avlady]

I am happy for you to have felt some type of love; tis better to have loved and be loved, than never to have loved at all, that is how the saying goes?

[Switch]

Why if he asked? just curious. You're talking to a girl who asked her fiancé instead of the other way around. Though maybe I'm just impatient.

If he likes someone else, well then there's really not much you can do but wait. Tread carefully: you don't want to set off any land mines in the process and ruin any friendships. No one likes drama. But if you can, I think you should totally go for him.

Also don't wait for guys, they never notice. They can be silly like that, and all the anxiety you feel they feel too and are just as likely to be stopped by it. So if you think he likes you but is too afraid to ask, be bold and ask for him.

[TheJettSet27]

Originally Posted by Switch

Why if he asked? just curious. You're talking to a girl who asked her fiancé instead of the other way around. Though maybe I'm just impatient.

If he likes someone else, well then there's really not much you can do but wait. Tread carefully: you don't want to set off any land mines in the process and ruin any friendships. No one likes drama. But if you can, I think you should totally go for him.

Also don't wait for guys, they never notice. They can be silly like that, and all the anxiety you feel they feel too and are just as likely to be stopped by it. So if you think he likes you but is too afraid to ask, be bold and ask for him.

If he asked, I would say yes.
Thanks for the advice, but I know he likes someone else. Heard it from a good friend of his; actually, more than one. It's fairly common knowledge, actually, although the girl he supposedly likes is pretty cool. I feel no ill will towards her.