[kala83]

-_- I am not happy anymore. AT all the two friends I made mention of befoe that are now ex friends are doing all they can to pretty much harrass the **** out of me and other friends of mine in my life.

at first they got a hold of one of my friends complaining i had their stuff and that they could not get a hold of me so they got a hold of her to tell her....that they needed this stuff back.

But then they call me up complaining they have not gotten all their stuff and that I was supposedly wearing some of their clothes last night at outing I was at.
which I was not it just so happened the stuff I was wearing looked like clothes they own.

and lol I guess sitting in a corner being quiet and avoiding people and being so for like two hours to some people means

"I am acting immaturely" and giving people the evil eye.

not to mention I responded back to the main issue of getting people's things back...... very respectfully and politely and I got name called and bullied as well other people such as my boyfriend got name called and bullied as well.

I am just getting sick of all this I am willing to get them back their ****...but I want the harassment to stop I am so tired of all of this.

if they start in on this stuff again i am almost tempted to press charges.....since it is a form of harassment and I am not starting crap with them I am telling them I will do what they want their is no reason for the harsh words and such they are pulling.

its amazing how fake people can truly be and then in some way shape or form you see their true colors I honestly am amazed at how I was EVER friends with these two like ever.

[Thunder Bow]

Remember Bullying is all about Control. They were trying to control you with those actions toward you. If you can not get away from them, then stand up to them.

[kala83]

I am going over to their place in the morning with my mother to return more stuff of theirs and get get our stuff back...hopefully it should take all of five minutes or so to go in and go out of the place

[kala83]

I should have know...ugh now these two are not only trying to get there stuff back from me but tell me that I owe them money some how.

yeah a wapping grand total of forty bucks to I might add.

I have no idea how they think think I owe this to them at all right now....

and they are sitting here pretty much telling me they want me to give them back gifted items they gave me....and they are trying to go into the whole "with as much you owe us this is the least you can do for us"

I can't believe these two are they serious!? I helped them move out of the place they lived in before AND find them a new place to live so they would not be home less and be living on the street.

Before I meet the girl in the duo they are now I helped my friend with looking for a job all the time AND paid $55 to help keep him from doing to jail which yes he did pay me back but he acted like saying thanks for it the one time was enough graditude to show for it which I always thought was kind of rude but I kept my mouth shut about it.

Then the girl I meet my mom helped with her getting her car worked on....and fixed u $100 then after we had a factory job she asked if she could bum $60 off me to get her phone paid and back on again. They used my mom's money all the time off of her credit card cause if they happened to be hungry they would ask me if I could help out but up until a few months ago I was unemployed and had a credit card my mom gave me for food and such.

They used my food stamps telling me they would pay me back and never did I am fairly sure there were chares of like 70 and 90 dollars on it last time THEY used it. And yet these two seriously have the balls to turn around and tell me I OWE them money.....

this being said if they tell I am owing them money at this point I will gladly pay them just to have them shut up and leave me alone about ****....right now but some how I am afraid they are just gonna keep coming back and saying we need this or you owe us this...just like they seemed to do in their friendship with me...

as sad as it sounds I am not sure what do at that point...I mean what do I do when they just keep coming back saying they want more and more money from me. Hopefully that does not to turn out being the case...

I am sooo glad my mom is going with me in the morning cause at this point I want to hurt one of them.

[Thunder Bow]

Sound like you are caught in a web of co-dependancy and Rescue. Time to slowly let go and back out. Have you talked with a Therapist about this?

[kala83]

well my therpaist keeps an eye on my posts and I hope we read this i went over and got my stuff from and am cutting all ties to them and our friendship now...not that i think this will stop either one of them from talking **** on me if they see me out in town....by myself or with people.

but I am glad to have the two gone out of my life.

[CaptainChaos79]

You know, stand up and tell those sorry SOBs that they r lucky to get what they are getting and if they don't like it to take you to civil court, which will cost far more than 40 bucks. If youballow them to extort another dime from you they will continue to try to get more. you must draw the line now. Sure they will probably talk bad about you to everyone who will listen but arent they already doing that so who cares? They will find a new target once they realize you will no longer be bullied anymore.