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Old Sep 27, 2015, 12:21 PM
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I don't know if anyone still looks or reads stuff on here but wanted to let you all know, she is pretty distant with me and she's with someone else.

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Sorry, is she distant with you how? Don't respond to your e-mail? Cancel chats? Don't put attention when you two talk? And about she being with somebody else: you mean as a friendship or as a lover? And why this cause you pain?

People will tell you that there are more in the word, but I don't think that advice honestly helps. There can be millions were you live but that doesn't mean you are going to find another friend/lover/partner and it can in fact make you feel even worse because since there is so much people out there, why can't I find more?

Tell me, how was life been since you and your friend parted (temporarely) ways? What do you do in the morning, afternoon and evening? Do you watch tv? Internet? Work? Try to produce something? Work? Talk with other people? What all of this things make you feel?

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Old Sep 28, 2015, 11:50 PM
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She has left tube state and won't come visit. She will sometimes respond to me via text. She has a boyfriend now. I finally was able to find a job working with tea, it's nice to smell them all. That usually takes up my entire day.
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Sorry, is she distant with you how? Don't respond to your e-mail? Cancel chats? Don't put attention when you two talk? And about she being with somebody else: you mean as a friendship or as a lover? And why this cause you pain?

People will tell you that there are more in the word, but I don't think that advice honestly helps. There can be millions were you live but that doesn't mean you are going to find another friend/lover/partner and it can in fact make you feel even worse because since there is so much people out there, why can't I find more?

Tell me, how was life been since you and your friend parted (temporarely) ways? What do you do in the morning, afternoon and evening? Do you watch tv? Internet? Work? Try to produce something? Work? Talk with other people? What all of this things make you feel?

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Old Sep 29, 2015, 04:34 AM
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Sometimes friendships end. It might be time to start looking for new friends. I am so glad you have a job

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Old Oct 02, 2015, 06:38 PM
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I don't know if anyone still looks or reads stuff on here but wanted to let you all know, she is pretty distant with me and she's with someone else.
Did you ask her what's wrong?
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Old Oct 03, 2015, 08:21 AM
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Hi Nak. Wow, decisions and not knowing which one to make. Been there a long time ago. I encourage you to listen to your inner gut feeling. Choose the major that you feel reflects you as a person. What do you like to do? What interests you in fields that you admire? Ask yourself, "If i could be anything i would want to be this..." and that will be a good start for you. Many people go to school and discover what they thought they wanted wasn't right for them and change their major. Talk to the Admissions Office and they can help you sort it out. I worked for about 20 years before I even went to college. I had a lot of background in various jobs to help me see it is not always about money, it is about being true to yourself. Good luck! Blessings...
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Old Oct 03, 2015, 08:40 AM
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Sometimes friendships end. It might be time to start looking for new friends. I am so glad you have a job

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Unfortunately it's a lot easier said then done for me (I have a hard time making them)

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