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Been having a struggle of many misunderstandings with my daughter. It seems year after year there are hurt feelings and missed opportunities for kindness and mutual caring. Right now it justs hurts a lot .
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What a hurting day. My grown up girl is angry and aiming it at me!
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She will figure it out one day. I was so mean to my mom sometimes. She is gone. I cannot take that back - but she was kind and forgiving. May you feel loved in someway.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany “Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge |
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I'm sorry PianogirlPlays. I have to admit that I have an almost non-existent relationship with my mom. She didn't even know about my mental illnesses, abuse or rape until 8 years after my diagnosis. When I did tell her, her immediately response was why she was the last to know. Argh!!!
Your daughter may be dealing with some of her own issues. Have you thought about sending her a handwritten letter letting her know how much you love and care about her, and reassure her you are there for her? |
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Yes, I think it is important to feel loved myself. I know what you mean though. I had struggles of my own with my Mom. Gone long ago now but I did try to do well by her. Just slipped a couple of times.
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My daughter just recently moved out of the house and hadn't wanted to include me much into her life, so I can relate to be saddened by your daughter, pianogirlplays. It's tough when all your life you cared and took care of your child, and then they are gone, just like that. I know her moving out and has contributed a lot to my recent depression episode.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany “Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge |
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