Please help me. Is my mom cheating?

i don't know what to do. Ive been suspicious of my mom for a while now because i looked over her shoulder at her phone about 3 weeks ago to see what she was doing. i found out that she was using KIK to text my old softball coach from when i was little. i know that KIK is used to text people and then to be able to be deleted so i don't know what to do at this point. to make matters worse, she just went to bed about 15 minutes ago and left her phone upstairs so i decided to check things out. i went to the conversation she last had and it said "i miss you so much and i want to spend the rest of my life with you" {from him} and other things like that. what was most heartbreaking was that he said "is it even possible for me to have the chance to have something with you?" and she replied "let me think". what does that supposed to mean? i just don't understand. i thought my parents had finally gotten thought the tough times they had. when i was in second grade {now sophomore and 15} i was sitting at the top of my stairs listening to them fight because they were so loud and they said lets get a divorce and then they decided to get one after my little sister has left the house. I'm terrified because i thought they were okay now but i don't want them to get a divorce. can anyone tell me if they think shes cheating or if not and reassure me? I'm ready to cry because i love them both so so much.

I replied to your other post regarding this. please help me. i dont know if shes cheating or not

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Hello dear skyladuhh. First of all I'd like to offer you a very big warm WELCOME to Psych Central and all of the excellent things it has in store for you!! When you have time check out the different forums and threads, something will catch your eye, that's how we all find what we are looking for. There are also places to find information on conditions/medication and disorders etc. I hope to see you around PC soon hunny. HUGS. XXXXXXXXXX

I'm so sorry to hear this. My dad cheated on my mother numerous times when I was growing up and then she cheated on him so I know how confusing and overwhelming it can be as a youngster when you suspect something is going on.

Unfortunately, a relationship can't work if the two are just doing it for the kids sake. That's a rocky foundation to start with. And then add interest from another man and it can be a disaster, but it doesn't sound like your mum is 100% on board. The only way you can find out for sure is to ask her, calmly, what is going on. We will all support whatever you decide to do, and I wish you all the best and hope things sort themselves out.