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Jul 29, 2014, 01:26 PM
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we have been through some good times lately son seemed to be getting happier and quieter, until his gf of a year broke up with him, within a few days he found himself a new one but they all come with there own baggage,
as he is on medication for his adhd he needs to take this regularly, and other reasons he is classed as disabled, some people learn to cope , but our son keeps getting stuck in that cycle, he stayed at his gf's over the weekend came home mon evening, then spent most of today asking if his gf can come to ours from today till Friday, with the way we are we dont people around us all the time especially people we dont know i compromised and said from weds till Friday, we had company and we were getting ready to go out, but hubby went to the toilet first he then went to speak to son calmly but son was well agitated by now , son did his usual and threatened hubby, daughter saw all this hubby stayed calmly though the first threat but son turned his bed over in temper not sure what happened then but hubby ended up punching son a lot, daughter ran to get us and between me and hubby's brother we got hubby of son and out of the room but by now the damage was done, im normally around and step in the way when things get this far, im now scared of what is going to happen sons staying with his gf for a few days, hubby is bottling everything up, daughter has gone home scared and frightened, i am sat here thinking were do i start to pick up the pieces of my family 
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Jul 29, 2014, 01:50 PM
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Are there multiple instances of your husband 'punching your son a lot' and how old is he? Has he ever hit you or the daughter? I don't know doesn't sound like a very good situation from your post so far.
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Jul 29, 2014, 09:31 PM
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No he's never hit the son before but sons ADHD and temper pushes the boundaries sometimes, he is 22 hubby has never hit our daughter or myself,
Son can and does threaten a lot he doesn't think before he says stuff, these blow ups happen and then things go quiet, Spoke to son he is sorry for keeping on and for the situation he got into, need to get past this he says he wants to come home but not this week, All his life he's had a temper when we used to see the child doctor I would explain what he's like, but they just let it go, Now he is only under the gp,
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