[random...girl...23]

I haven't posted on here in a while because things have been going really and ive been taking my meds and things have just been going well...til tonight and it all fell apart. ive had problems with my roomates bf in the past but i havent in a while. so this is what happened. i asked if i could eat a pizza that was in the freezer she said no because it was is. which really why is he leaving his **** here he has his own house ****! anyways so he comes over and they go to the bathroom and i noticed he was playing a game on my computer so while they were in there i grabbed it and unistalled his game. immature i know but he didnt even ask and i had already had enough of him. hes over all the time, practically lives here..i have tried to bring it up before but ive been okay with it and just pushed it down but tonight i just broke. i mean ive been having nightmares about me and her getting in a fight because of him and now its fricking happening. and i know what i did was ridiuclous but i just couldnt help myself almost. im sure im going to hear about it when she gets home or the next time i see her. im scared

[bluekoi]

random...girl...23, I'm sorry you are having trouble with your roommate's boyfriend. I hope your roommate is not angry with you. Can you password protect your computer from unauthorized use? Uninstalling his game was your choice, but it is done now. Perhaps apologize for this and explain how you felt at the time. I hope you and your roommate can talk things out.

[Parley]

Yeah~ she might be mad but it's your computer and you have a right to revoke permission anytime you want. Besides, it sounds like you didn't give him permission to use it. It was immature if you allow him to play without permission but I thought you were going to say you cooked the pizza. That would have been wrong.

Hopefully you and your roommate can work things out ~ It's been a LONG time since I had these issues but I know it wasn't easy. Best of luck to ya.

[QuasiM0d0]

Originally Posted by random...girl...23

I haven't posted on here in a while because things have been going really and ive been taking my meds and things have just been going well...til tonight and it all fell apart. ive had problems with my roomates bf in the past but i havent in a while. so this is what happened. i asked if i could eat a pizza that was in the freezer she said no because it was is. which really why is he leaving his **** here he has his own house ****! anyways so he comes over and they go to the bathroom and i noticed he was playing a game on my computer so while they were in there i grabbed it and unistalled his game. immature i know but he didnt even ask and i had already had enough of him. hes over all the time, practically lives here..i have tried to bring it up before but ive been okay with it and just pushed it down but tonight i just broke. i mean ive been having nightmares about me and her getting in a fight because of him and now its fricking happening. and i know what i did was ridiuclous but i just couldnt help myself almost. im sure im going to hear about it when she gets home or the next time i see her. im scared

I think your anger is normal. The inconsideration would bother me as well. Perhaps the two of you could possible set some ground rules. Just a suggestion.

I know how bad room mates can be, I had a passive aggressive nightmare as a room mate, I tried really hard to work things out, but I moved out because I had the option.

You have every right to stop your friend's bf from using your computer. I hope your friend will understand, I hate confrontations too, and I hate having arguments, but if she really is your friend, she will understand.

[Thunder Bow]

Time to look for a new roommate.

[hvert]

Yeah, I don't think you were out of line here. He plays on your computer and keeps his stuff in your freezer when he's not paying rent or asking permission? I would be mad too.

[maxthorton]

Originally Posted by random...girl...23

I haven't posted on here in a while because things have been going really and ive been taking my meds and things have just been going well...til tonight and it all fell apart. ive had problems with my roomates bf in the past but i havent in a while. so this is what happened. i asked if i could eat a pizza that was in the freezer she said no because it was is. which really why is he leaving his **** here he has his own house ****! anyways so he comes over and they go to the bathroom and i noticed he was playing a game on my computer so while they were in there i grabbed it and unistalled his game. immature i know but he didnt even ask and i had already had enough of him. hes over all the time, practically lives here..i have tried to bring it up before but ive been okay with it and just pushed it down but tonight i just broke. i mean ive been having nightmares about me and her getting in a fight because of him and now its fricking happening. and i know what i did was ridiuclous but i just couldnt help myself almost. im sure im going to hear about it when she gets home or the next time i see her. im scared

assertivness. the best thing to do of someone your scared of is toscare them more

It's been over a week since then...how did things turn out?