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Sep 19, 2014, 04:30 PM
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OK, so I've never been in a fight or the type of person to antagonize or judge others really, but as I grow older (and especially as of late) I find it difficult to not blurt out things to people I see out in the world- whether it be their stupidity, or their ridiculousness (clothing wise, dumb actions, or their judging looks) I know it's not good, I'm probably going to end up in a fight one day. I hope not I try not to say anything. I tell myself, who am I judge them? I complain about feeling like others judge me, but that's just how they are. I judge others too. But I guess I feel it's different, I usually judge others when their are clearly superficial, selfish, wasteful (of food or as in littering, etc). So,
I guess I feel like my kind of judging is ok- it's based on peoples actions, it's more righteous in a sense. Versus most people I know judge others based upon their looks and what they think they know about a person(they must be poor (and that's bad for some reason, they must be a 'degenerate,' they must do drugs, etc.) I don't know, maybe I'm in the wrong a bit myself, maybe I've got things twisted. I don't want people to think I'm above anyone else, I hate when anyone thinks they are better than others. I mainly get annoyed when people are thoughtless towards others and the world at large and just make things worse and are mean and selfish towards others. Is that so wrong?? |
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Sep 19, 2014, 10:36 PM
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Yes, people can be quite annoying, but I am learning that generally they don't want us to try to straighten them out.
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Sep 19, 2014, 11:34 PM
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Well I can relate to this because I've always had trouble coping with people. Nowadays I'm a lot better I if look at how I was before but I have a lot to learn yet...
On bad days I can get easily annoyed and sometimes I respond aggressively, especially is the other person says stupid things. But hey, there are REALLY annoying people out there, it's true. Most of the time I just ignore them, but sometimes I can't control it... I have to continue working on this. I am quite selective with people; I like it though, but I also want to get better at meeting and knowing new people.
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Sep 20, 2014, 04:50 AM
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