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Mar 08, 2015, 09:38 PM
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So recently I decided to make an appointment for a massage because I've never had one. I just turned 20 so I thought it would be fun. When I got there my friend went first and when she came back she informed me that you had to be naked. I wasn't sure because all places are different.
I was actually surprisingly ok with it... and the massage felt nice.. however afterwards I just had this awful feeling and I can't figure it out still. It just didn't feel right that some strange lady was touching me and all that. It felt wrong. I don't know why some of my friends can get massages and say they're fun and then for me to feel so uncomfortable about it afterwards. |
 shezbut, sideblinded
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Mar 08, 2015, 10:00 PM
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You are not the only one who feels this way. I am a female and I once had a full body massage naked and it was the strangest feeling having a man do the massage. I couldn't relax as he seemed to get too near if you know what I mean.
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| shezbut, Tsukiko
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Mar 08, 2015, 10:11 PM
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Never had one but i always wondering how could some people feel comfortable with massages. I don't even feel comfortable with normal physical contact like hug or holding hands. So i guess massage would be uncomfortable for me as well
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Mar 10, 2015, 08:01 AM
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I also dislike massage because I feel that wastes my time. In the past, when people massaged me I felt painful. But once one of my male friends massaged me and I felt comfortable. When I told him I felt tired he said he could massage me, then I replied him massage is painful so I hate it. But he said he has learnt massage and he could make me comfortable. Then I granted to let him try and then I indeed feel comfortable. It turns out massage takes some skills to make the massaged person felt comfortable. But I still don't like to focus on using massage to relieve my fatigue because I dislike the feeling of wasting time when being massaged.
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Mar 10, 2015, 10:56 AM
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It is their job to do that and it is a professional thing.
 Relax and enjoy...Having a massage is one of greatest feelings. Try not to think how some strange woman is touching you. At least it is not a guy
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