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#1
Apr 29, 2015, 01:13 PM
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Possible trigger:
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrowl 
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#2
Apr 29, 2015, 01:24 PM
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Aww Fuzzy
 You have enough people trying to make you feel guilty and hurt. Don't help them do it. They don't need help nor do they deserve it.And the guilt and blame isn't yours. Makes me wonder why they try so hard to give it to you. Lets hear an angry I'm not gonna take that crap from them grrr No, a bigger one like this: GRRRRR! Sometimes it takes an anger. Later on you can just give them a disinterested yawn 
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#3
Apr 29, 2015, 01:44 PM
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Possible trigger:
May love win  Just thinking of my ****ed up childhood, like a .. AND all abuse is like a "b movie" like gggrrrrrrowl yes those abusers from so long ago deserve....... (((((((( GeorgeH ))))))))
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Apr 29, 2015, 01:54 PM
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#5
Apr 29, 2015, 02:21 PM
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thats just not right-i think you should just ignore their ignorance
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#6
Apr 29, 2015, 02:46 PM
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Hi Fuzzy, sounds to me like she's trying to avoid/avoiding feeling guilt/thinking about what she "shoulda, coulda, didn't do".
But maybe that could be part of her grieving process too.........looking for answers, looking for something/someone to blame........... But whatever there's NO excuses for saying that to you, NONE at all!! So please don't shoulder any blame, that isn't yours to shoulder. This isn't your fault. Sadly there are going to be people like your aunt in the world, but there are truly caring one's too e.g. plenty on here!!! So attention on "being with" them, hey?? That's where you belong!!! Alison |
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#7
Apr 29, 2015, 08:30 PM
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I get blamed for my mom's having to work so much when she drinks. It's kind of indirect but it hurts. It's not your fault fuzzy, you're an awesome person
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#8
Apr 30, 2015, 03:22 PM
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U know if they couldn't blame u, they'd probably have to blame themselves. Then they would probably have to change their behavior. Much easier to blame u. U know better. Stupid people say stupid things. And as I'm sure u have heard, there is no cure for stupidity. So be thankful u aren't them. I really like the disinterest yawn approach.
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#9
May 03, 2015, 08:46 AM
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You belong in my world (((((Fuzzy-bear-i-kin-kin-kin-kin-kins)))))
Just because someone is shoveling out abuse doesn't mean you have to take delivery, dear. 
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#10
May 03, 2015, 03:29 PM
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