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Old May 23, 2015, 07:04 PM
kray_bray_may kray_bray_may is offline
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I've noticed this about myself: when I experience what can be described as joy or happiness, I immediately seek to dampen it. Reason I give myself is not wanting to fall off the emotional high. Also told myself I'd rather be on a consistent, low level than face swinging highs and lows. Am I emotionally repressed?

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Old May 23, 2015, 08:32 PM
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"I'm Only Happy When It Rains" by Garbage...

I don't trust it when I'm happy. I know the fall is coming soon. It's always bittersweet. I know that feeling, of wanting to be in the middle ground. Meds will do that for you, you know.

I don't think you're repressed. I think you might be afraid, afraid of the drop off.

Are you in therapy?
Thanks for this!
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Old May 24, 2015, 01:05 AM
kray_bray_may kray_bray_may is offline
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"I'm Only Happy When It Rains" by Garbage...

I don't trust it when I'm happy.
Yes, precisely.

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I know that feeling, of wanting to be in the middle ground.
I'd like to be positively stable; being negatively isn't fun, even if slightly preferable to mood swings.

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Meds will do that for you, you know.
I'm not doing meds.

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Are you in therapy?
Was for five months spring-fall last year; stopped for past six; heading back next week or two pending availability.
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Old May 24, 2015, 03:19 AM
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Hard to tell where an individual's line is between physically/mentally ill and attitude? If you haven't been "positively stable" what you imagine might not even be what it is like. I was excessively anxious and "introverted" (self-absorbed) most of my life (I'll be 65 this year) and therapy "fixed" that so I'd describe myself as "positively stable" but looking back, what I imagined and what I have -- I could not have imagined having?
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Old May 27, 2015, 07:43 PM
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Hard to tell where an individual's line is between physically/mentally ill and attitude? If you haven't been "positively stable" what you imagine might not even be what it is like. I was excessively anxious and "introverted" (self-absorbed) most of my life (I'll be 65 this year) and therapy "fixed" that so I'd describe myself as "positively stable" but looking back, what I imagined and what I have -- I could not have imagined having?
What do you mean?
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