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Old Jun 02, 2015, 01:22 PM
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have you ever had that cuddly fluffy baby feeling for someone.
why does it fade away.
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Old Jun 05, 2015, 12:16 AM
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Old Jun 06, 2015, 03:30 PM
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Old Jun 06, 2015, 03:45 PM
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Old Jun 07, 2015, 01:16 PM
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It's the nature of emotions. They are ephemeral. I just saw an article (forget which one, I was reading a lot) on the main site that said the average emotional response in a normal person lasts 12 seconds. When people have a sustained emotional response to another, it's because they have built up a situation where it is always renewing itself, and even then they don't feel it all the time, it comes and goes.
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Old Jun 11, 2015, 01:45 AM
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Good question jara.

You know what I once read? Now I don't know the authenticity of this. But I do remember what I read.

Apparantly our brain produces (more of) hormones in the first 6 months of a relationship creating that warm fuzzy feeling and sense of attraction.

I don't think this means the relationship is meant to get any worse / better by any means after these 6 months.

I view it like this.

By 6 months you would know someone well enough, warts and all, and have formed a bond and love with this person and this drives the relationship forward positively in a healthy manner.

Just thought I'd put it out there. I found it interesting when I read it.
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