Coping with emotions and anxiety

Hi,

I got accept to an apartment back East. I'm feeling a little anxious and my emotions are a little on a roller coaster. I not sure when I will be moving as I'm waiting for a person to call me and do interview over the phone. I'm kind of having second thoughts. I getting the service I need now. I hate to give it up. On the other hand my family are back East, and I miss the beach. My Mom not well and need help. So I'm kind of confuse what to do. Any suggestions is helpful.

loveyouhun

loveyouhun,
I really can only suggest how you might evaluate your situation. If you have put down a deposit that may be a consideration, but these factors may be more important.

Why not make a list of factors for and against.

You sound like you may be signing up for a long term caregiving with your mom. How do you feel you are able to cope with that? Not sure if that is for or against depending on how you feel.

How long have you been with your support team? T and pdoc
Are you improving or stable with them?

Will your income increase to compensate for possibly higher rents out east? How do rents compare?

What friends network do you have in AZ and what friends (current not past) do you have back East.

Are you working? how easy will it be to get a job?

Self evaluate how the move will affect your finances. To move can cost $2000-$5000 depending on how much stuff, how much income loss.

How do you like your current home in AZ?

Could you fly out to be with your mom for a week and then fly back? It could be less than moving if you could stay with her.

Those are some things to evaluate on your own.

Best to move, and take care of your self. No need to feel guilty about it. You will survive and feel much better if you do. How sick is your mother?