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Oct 31, 2015, 12:23 AM
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 Good morning to all my dear friends at PCI would like to ask for a help I am 30 year old ...... from childhood onwards i had a feeling that my family doesnt love me or care for me...... hence i used to seek love among others and outsiders who ever showed a bit of concern towards me and get attached to them easily.... But my parents used to say that they have loved me and cared in their way... my most deadliest feeling is that i am unable to change my thinking that they ever loved me.... I am depressed and have feeling lonliness......no one likes or care for me ... how to change this thinkings.... any suggestions or techniques would be grateful. FRIENDS PLEASE HELP ME TO GET OUT OF THIS 
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Oct 31, 2015, 07:21 AM
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Letting go of resentments is hard. I never felt my dad loved me. It took until he got old for me to realize he didn't know how to love a child. He was brought up in a bad home. Once I realized that he did the best he knew how to do it was easier for me to forgive him. Once I forgave him life was easier for me.
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Oct 31, 2015, 07:32 AM
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i also forgave my parents and things are much better now. i don't blame them either because alot of it was my own fault too. good luck
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Oct 31, 2015, 12:47 PM
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Parents how are emotionally distant from their children, are that way because the too, got problems about being emotionally open. It usually has nothing to do with the children personally, or what kind of children they were. All children in this kind of situation, will think they are responsible. But this conclusion is not true, and never has been.
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