jealous, suspicious, paranoid, angry

So there is this girl, who claims she is,bisexual. she is 14 or 15. I have nothing against sexuality, because I myself am Bisexual. but This girl was my friend on Facebook, and she like randomly added my girlfriend. This was a while back. I didnt really think much, but like she started commenting on my girlfriends pictures saying she was beautiful and stuff. I started to get suspicious. My girlfriend is also bisexual, but shes like 20 so no way they could be together. My girlfriend likes every single picture this girl has posted of herself. I feel like this girl is flirting with my Girlfriend. My girlfriend liked a status the girl posted which said " I'm going to do a tbh (to be honest) like my status for one. The girlended up posting on my girlfriends facebook wall saying "To be honest, You're really gorgeous. I'm jealous of you! lol we should take soon, and i love the shirt you always wear. can you do your makeup for me. xD happy early thanksgiving" my girfriend replied "aww thank you! #^.^# you are such a sweetheart and you are so beautiful yourself!" this really means alot. made my day. we do need to talk more. happy thanksgiving." she replied "we really do <3 cx" I liked this girls status and she hasnt even said anything. like at least a "your cool" would do. it would at least show that she isnt flirting with my girlfriend. and the fact that it meant so much to my girlfriend and made her day, pissed me off. I compiment my girlfriend all the time! I call her gorgeous, stunning etc..Feel like my words dont matter anymore..maybe i should stop,complimenting her. i dont show my jealousy, but i get really suspicious. and like i'm really sensitive and stuff..my girlfriend is always called beautiful and stuff and i never get complimented. I feel ugly and wonder if i should talk a million sleeping pills and slip into an endless coma.

perhaps she's just not the one for you, perhaps she's okay for now but not the one you'll end up marrying and want to have kids and stuff.

so no, don't take sleeping pills and end it, because 'the one' might be just around the corner and worth waiting for.

so you girlfriend is beautiful and has admirers, but she chooses to stay with you, doesn't that tell you something?

listen to lowinmood

Well for some perspective, if your girlfriend is 20 and really is hitting on a 14-15 year old, that is a much bigger red flag than pretty much anything else in the picture, if your SO is an adult who hits on young teenagers. Like seriously, yikes. So if you truly are suspicious, I would advise turning your focus away from insecurity and jealousy, and turning it instead onto the creepy pedo-vibes.

The other possibility is that your girlfriend is just really kind, and is trying to give a lonely, insecure teenager a sense of friendship, approval and belonging. The teenager herself might harbor some sort of crush, that is fairly typical for teenagers who receive friendship-type attention from an attractive adult. Happens. But it could very well be that your girlfriend is just trying to be a nice person.

Yes I think this too

I think this could well be true too

Can you take a break from Facebook and that will stop the drama? Thinking of you *hugs*

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