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for the past year or so, I have seriously deeply hated women. After my ex broke up with me last year, I felt very rejected. I still have times where i feel a mixture of emotions towards her and women in general. I look at my life and women have always abandoned me in some way. My mom is a narcissist and when ever i try to talk to her about my feelings she will ignore me and bring up something that happened in her life. really ****ing irritating.
I have deep hatred towards women and i hate my self as well. I never have positive thought any more about my self and i feel like im in a huge black pool of negativity. So hard to deal with this. I gained a lot of weight since the break up and now i'm even more rejected by women and they never smile or look at me. |
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You are finding many reasons to feel bad about yourself. You are just into feeling bad about yourself, women or no women. If you depression is overwhelming see a therapist. You do not always have to feel bad about yourself, there are alternitives.
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I don't hate women but I can understand were your coming from. I've also been hurt many times by women and I had a mother who was psychologically and emotionally abusive.
In our society it's often not recognized that men can be abused by women and men usually don't have as many resources for support. Women can be extremely brutal psychologically and dump you in a heart beat because she's not getting her needs met or whatever excuse they use. I often do find women to be harsher in this way then men. But there are good women out there and let's remember some of these women are dealing with there own issues of trauma and abuse they've received. My advise to you would be to work on your self esteem and understand you are valuable no matter what and you don't need a women to give you self esteem, it has to come from within. |
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