Fooled again

OK work is not where you are supposed to be concerned about all this, but I'm not safe anywhere. I was a company joke. Why no clue. Truly evil to tell someone you love them as a game. But I saw yesterday that I was played. Now what?

I was able to hold my head up and act natural, even my mood improved. But tonight I am sick to my stomach. Thinking about how foolish seem.

Hey Aviza
So if I get you right someone from work said you they love you as a gimmick for everyone to be amused?
My father has had a similar experience. He worked in a software company back then where they would have conferences where everyone sat in fron of their own computer but all sitting on one table and discussing. So during one of these sessions a work colleague would write him a "love letter". My father reacted in a humorous way and drew a stick figure in Paint saying "Oh". Then everyone would love out loud when he sent it because the work colleague would make her screen for everyone to be visible. My father found it funny too and he likes to tell this anecdote.
However, I think if I had been in a similar situation, I would have not reacted that chill and I woud not have been so easy about if I found out it was a gimmick.
I'm not sure as to what happened in your case exactly, was it just one insctance or did they play the game for a while (if you feel comfortable telling)?
Anyway, I understand if you feel uncomfortable and stuff after being treated that way. After all, there's always the possibility to find another job, in case there is a tendency in your work place to find "bullying victims" I would definitely do that if this applies. A predatory surrounding makes you sick after a while.

The trainer who basically looked me in the eye told me he loved me. Days later states my name saying I have changed his life. Feel the love guys, feel the love? Stated until a few said yes. Lead me on in various ways and forms. A card saying hang in there signed by all managers. Jumping at the chance to assist me.

I was led on. Starting to feel crazy and act irractically because I couldn't figure out his stance. No date, yet all these odd things at work. Copier password is my surgery date for example. Well yesterday his long term live in girlfriend showed up in her porsche. I saw them together. She is not ugly like someone told me. They are cute together. I can see he isn't in love with her but love isn't everything. He actually seems quite controlling of her.

Anyway I feel relieved, he declared his woman, yet embarrassed to think I ever believed him. Today I act happy and my usual self but I still feel played.

How can you see he isn't in love with her? One can't possibly see that.

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Everything I said, you find one thing to pick on, really?

I already talked to you about the previous issue with the guy. What else do I need to comment on? You seem still preoccupied with him. Now you are analyzing if he is in love or not. You could maybe ask for transfer as its bad work environment or report him that he was teasing you inappropriately. I don't know what else.

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