I hate people

My mom is pissing me off right now. When someone says the wrong thing to me I get really mad. I'm not really sure how to explain how people act I'm bad at that but how she's acting is what's pissing me off. This is what people like to do to me and if I say anything they just get more upset with me. So I just don't say anything anymore. I just keep everything to myself cause they don't try to understand me and then someone else tells me I need to stand up for myself when I already try to do that not to mention sometimes your point of veiw is just hard to explain and then I get even more pissed off. I just wanna break everything and hurt somebody. I hate how people try to act all dominant towards you and just try to control you. If I were to do the same thing it wouldn't be ok and they would just become even more controlling and dominant and then I'm afraid of what I might do if I did try to fight back more.

Does this happen only with your mom or with other people, as well? If it's only with her, then you could try to talk about these things with her, in a civil manner..

The people in my life act the same way. They can be so controlling and mean, but if you act even remotely like that in anyway they get mad at you and start coming after me making me feel like crap. And when I don't speak up and try to keep my head down, I'm being to much of a pushover and I should try to be confident...blah blah blah... It amazes me how people can't see the way they act or just don't care.

It happens with other people as well but not with everyone. I think people think they can just treat me however they want cause I'm a more shy, quiet, timid person. I can't talk about things with my mom in a civil manner. I try to talk to people in a civil manner about things cause I believe in doing things more peacefully and non voilent but that doesn't seem to work.

Perhaps you're just dealing with the wrong people. How many people you just can't stand?

I know you've already heard about how people can respond in passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive or assertive ways. Being assertive works best all the way around in most cases. Could you get ahold of some assertiveness skills books or tapes? I think if you work on being assertive you might have much less anger or negative consequences. Good luck and best wishes. Sending big hugs.

There's like at least five people I'm angry with and more people that just say something that makes me mad. Two of the five people are my parents and one is my grandma and the other two are people I used to hang out with. They just make me really mad and I feel like I don't really like them. There's at least three people I feel really comfortable around. There my close friends that I need to try and hang out with and talk to more. I don't talk a very much. I'm quiet most of the time. I talk more to the people that are my close friends and get very quiet around the people I feel less comfortable around.

I just wanna say it again. I hate people. No one cares. There's no good people or bad people. That's just an opinion. Maybe people should try understanding each other more and try to see things from thier perspective. But if you do something they see as wrong they treat you like ****. But I guess that's just not gonna happen. I'm sick of this duality mindset that people have like the other way of thinking is bad and the other is good. I'm mad at the world. I feel like everyone just hates each other and I hate them so I'm no better. I guess I'm just too sensitive. I just want nothing to do with it anymore. I don't want to be a part of this world where no one cares. I'm all alone cause everyone only cares about thier perspective. My feelings are just stupid and wrong and so I'm inferior to the other way of thinking. I feel like everyone is just against me. I don't know I'm not gonna make it through life. I just don't wanna do this. I wanna give up but I'm not sure if I can do that.