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Mar 27, 2018, 05:07 PM
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I made a mistake yesterday, I don’t know if the other person will forgive me
But I’m a mess and I’m trying to forgive myself It wasn’t my fault and it definitely wasn’t intentional. I am only hoping that time will heal wounds and I can move on from this. |
 Bill3, Loose Screw x 2, mote.of.soul, Open Eyes
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Mar 28, 2018, 12:43 PM
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What happened?
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Mar 31, 2018, 01:45 PM
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Look up Kirstin Neff,for self-compassion.
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Apr 01, 2018, 02:53 PM
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Not my fault really |
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Apr 01, 2018, 02:53 PM
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Apr 01, 2018, 02:59 PM
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Apr 02, 2018, 11:06 AM
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I eventually do stuff like this too. Hurt someone unintentionally and then gush apologies and feel terrible even if it isn't entirely me fault or isn't my fault at all.
It stems from feeling like you have to please everyone and having a guilty conscience. It can be hard to control but, you need to take back the power and not give in to the constant apologizing even if you are in the wrong. You are not obligated to kiss fanny every time you make a mistake and anyone who wants you to feel like you have to is trying to control you. |
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Apr 03, 2018, 01:15 PM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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