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Jul 23, 2018, 04:47 PM
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This is a vent and I'm just going to go right to the point. I hate my dad. His responses, reactions, and communications have ALWAYS been inconsistent. He is also an alcoholic. Today I asked him a benevolent question: "What are your thoughts on the kitchen?" (my mom and him are getting a renovation on their kitchen). I couldn't even handle the way he responded. It made me want to disown him. He answered with irritation, and annoyance, and arrogance. It hurt. I really wish I could disown him. I'm glad that I don't live with them anymore. I just wish...there was some consistency. You know? Like I wish I could either like him or dislike him. But no. He's manipulative, weird, nice sometimes, an asshole the next, and I never know what I'm going to get. **** him. I want to be tired of trying.
I'm sick of a few things but that was the main one I felt needed to come out. Last edited by Anonymous50384; Jul 23, 2018 at 05:14 PM. |
 avlady, Bill3, mote.of.soul, ShadowGX, Skeezyks
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Jul 24, 2018, 04:18 AM
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Jul 24, 2018, 06:43 AM
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Mine loves to gamble. I truly identify with what I highlighted/clipped out of your post.
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Jul 24, 2018, 10:29 PM
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I had a better experience with my dad today. It's funny...I walked in the door to my parents house, he was at the tv in the living room, and said hi, and asked me to bring the trash bins in. He then randomly said to me "so what do you think about the new kitchen?" As if we'd just been having that conversation, and not yesterday. Lol. I wondered if he felt bad of his tone the day before. Regardless, I did feel touched. Oh well.
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Jul 25, 2018, 12:29 PM
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Well at least he said something which shows he did notice what had happened or what he said.
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| healingme4me, mote.of.soul
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Jul 25, 2018, 02:11 PM
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Thanks Avlady. Yes, I agree. |
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