[xxKaneLovesZoexx]

Hey,

So this year everything had changed and I lost my girlfriend after she had an affair. We were together for about eight years and she was my first girlfriend so obviously it hit hard.

Thing is, everything going on in my life at the moment is almost like its me just sat watching a movie. I don't even recognise myself anymore and honestly it's so scary. I've changed so much and I'm not sure I like it.

[mote.of.soul]

An emotional setback such as the one you described can, in my experience, really knock a person for a six - dullening the emotions, robbing you of spark and joy, super jaded etc. But you can bounce back, it just takes time and a willingness to rise above it somehow.

[MickeyCheeky]

I understand what you mean, Kane. I'm sure you'll feel better at some point like mote.of.soul. has already wisely said better than I ever could. It will just take time. I'd suggest to see a therapist if you need help to get over your loss. Hopefully that will ease your pain a little bit. Don't give up. Stay strong and stay safe. Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, Kane, and to ALL the people you love and who love you!