[NeedHelp104]

I know I'm ugly.

I just feel sad about it because people will judge you before they even get to know you. I'm in a medical program, me and this other guy are the only guys in the whole program and all the girls always talk how handsome the other guy is right in front of me. It makes me feel super insecure and sad. And the male student brags about how girls take pictures of him out, etc. How he has a social life.

I honestly don't have a social life. I never had luck with friends. Things just don't click or people don't give me a chance. I'm usually the 'odd one out'.

At this point, I stay in my house 24/7. I don't know what else to do with my time. Go out to clubs? No one will want to hang out with me. Idk. I just know I graduate in one year that is one of the only things that make me happy. I don't know how people make friends, I never really had a friend in my entire life. I'm always alone, and it is depressing but at this point I am used to it. My brother gets checked out by girls in public, I never get checked out but it serves as a reminder how you know, people are not interested me at all. Any advice?

[katydid777]

I have always been the black sheep, never fit in, and I also don't have a social life. I am almost always at home.

Originally Posted by NeedHelp104

I know I'm ugly.

I just feel sad about it because people will judge you before they even get to know you. I'm in a medical program, me and this other guy are the only guys in the whole program and all the girls always talk how handsome the other guy is right in front of me. It makes me feel super insecure and sad. And the male student brags about how girls take pictures of him out, etc. How he has a social life.

I honestly don't have a social life. I never had luck with friends. Things just don't click or people don't give me a chance. I'm usually the 'odd one out'.

At this point, I stay in my house 24/7. I don't know what else to do with my time. Go out to clubs? No one will want to hang out with me. Idk. I just know I graduate in one year that is one of the only things that make me happy. I don't know how people make friends, I never really had a friend in my entire life. I'm always alone, and it is depressing but at this point I am used to it. My brother gets checked out by girls in public, I never get checked out but it serves as a reminder how you know, people are not interested me at all. Any advice?

I'm sure you're not ugly

the right person will like you for who you are

[MickeyCheeky]

I don't have any wise advice for you, unfortunately, @NeedHelp104, as I'm struggling with the same thing! Just know that you HAVE value and I'm sure you'll show it to everyone else and to those who are making fun of you right now! I'm so sorry things are being hard for you though. Perhaps there are some books on the subject that may help you? I'm sure there are plenty of topics who discuss social skills, how to make friends, ecc. Perhaps you may want to check out some books on self-esteem as well if you feel like it. It wouldn't be a bad idea to see a therapist either if you're not already doing. Just some thoughts for you. Give it a try! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you and your family, NeedHelp104! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME!