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Default Jan 05, 2020 at 02:33 PM
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When you say 'victim mentality' what do you mean? I ask because so often we are told we are "playing the victim" even when we are a victim. "playing the victim" has such a negative connotation. Are you a victim and you need to move on? Or are you someone who feels always that they are a victim of everything and want to make a change?
I was always a victim of being bullued, scape goat. I want to change my life.
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I was always a victim of being bullued, scape goat. I want to change my life.
It’s hard to stand up to bullies. The first thing is to try to avoid them. Get away from them. Don’t put yourself in a situation to get bullied. How are you at this skill?

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It’s hard to stand up to bullies. The first thing is to try to avoid them. Get away from them. Don’t put yourself in a situation to get bullied. How are you at this skill?
It hard to get away when they live with you and you can't get away.
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