Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #51  
Old Apr 10, 2020, 02:35 PM
Discombobulated's Avatar
Discombobulated Discombobulated is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 6,015
A few messages and my mum dropped off a craft gift she made for me which was a lovely surprise. Talked on the phone to my parents tonight.

advertisement
  #52  
Old Apr 10, 2020, 03:23 PM
Nammu's Avatar
Nammu Nammu is offline
Crone
 
Member Since: May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
Posts: 76,870
I had to do the bi-monthly shopping today and had a conversation about the weather though a mask and a plastic cover with the checkout lady. At the PO it was all business and no talk.
__________________
Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann



  #53  
Old Apr 10, 2020, 03:32 PM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
A few messages and my mum dropped off a craft gift she made for me which was a lovely surprise. Talked on the phone to my parents tonight.
Your family must be awesome from the posts I’ve read from you in this thread. Of course, you, included.
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
Hugs from:
Discombobulated
  #54  
Old Apr 10, 2020, 03:34 PM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nammu View Post
I had to do the bi-monthly shopping today and had a conversation about the weather though a mask and a plastic cover with the checkout lady. At the PO it was all business and no talk.
What does PO stand for, please?
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
  #55  
Old Apr 10, 2020, 06:06 PM
LiteraryLark's Avatar
LiteraryLark LiteraryLark is offline
Crowned "The Good Witch"
 
Member Since: Jun 2009
Location: Wonderland
Posts: 11,542
I played with the puppers today...kinda social interaction? I don't think it necessarily has to be human interaction. As far as humans go, I've very briefly saw my parents as they came in and out the door a few times. Hopefully when they wake up from their nap we'll all be a little more sociable.
  #56  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 10:07 AM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by LiteraryLark View Post
I played with the puppers today...kinda social interaction? I don't think it necessarily has to be human interaction. As far as humans go, I've very briefly saw my parents as they came in and out the door a few times. Hopefully when they wake up from their nap we'll all be a little more sociable.
Maybe I’m wrong but I think you meant puppets. Correct me.
I see it as a good practise for when this all stuff of the confinement ends up. lol!
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
Hugs from:
Discombobulated
  #57  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 02:14 PM
Discombobulated's Avatar
Discombobulated Discombobulated is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 6,015
Quote:
Originally Posted by AzulOscuro View Post
Maybe I’m wrong but I think you meant puppets. Correct me.
I see it as a good practise for when this all stuff of the confinement ends up. lol!
I think she meant puppers as in cute name for puppies!
Thanks for this!
AzulOscuro
  #58  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 02:16 PM
Discombobulated's Avatar
Discombobulated Discombobulated is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 6,015
I messaged a few people and did a quiz my friend made for us. I spoke by phone with my neighbour and stood by my elderly friend's door to talk a while from a distance while delivering a gift.
  #59  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 02:36 PM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
I think she meant puppers as in cute name for puppies!
Oh, silly me. I couldn’t know it. Sorry. I didn’t know it was a cool way to name puppies.
English is not my first language and it’s clear I’m not a very advantage learner either.

Of course, puppies count. Such marvellous creatures. Who dares not to say something to them!
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
Hugs from:
Discombobulated
  #60  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 02:42 PM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
I messaged a few people and did a quiz my friend made for us. I spoke by phone with my neighbour and stood by my elderly friend's door to talk a while from a distance while delivering a gift.
I love quizzes.
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
  #61  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 10:26 PM
zapatoes's Avatar
zapatoes zapatoes is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2018
Location: Islandia
Posts: 4,266
Texted and face timed my niece.
Hugs from:
Discombobulated
  #62  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 10:39 PM
LiteraryLark's Avatar
LiteraryLark LiteraryLark is offline
Crowned "The Good Witch"
 
Member Since: Jun 2009
Location: Wonderland
Posts: 11,542
I called my grandma and we talked for about 20 minutes.
Hugs from:
Discombobulated
  #63  
Old Apr 11, 2020, 10:50 PM
Nammu's Avatar
Nammu Nammu is offline
Crone
 
Member Since: May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
Posts: 76,870
I went out to get the papers and mail, my sister and BiL drove up! I went in the got mum and we talked though the window. They came to drop off food and masks. That she had made.
__________________
Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann



Hugs from:
Discombobulated
  #64  
Old Apr 16, 2020, 10:08 PM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
I have to say proudly that I made a video call with my sister, my nephew and my niece.
The longest I ever made if I have something to compare with lol!
A big achievement taking into account that my anxiety reaches 10 out of 10 when I only have to speak on the phone. Yeeeeepe!
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
Hugs from:
Discombobulated, mote.of.soul
Thanks for this!
Discombobulated, mote.of.soul
  #65  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 01:23 AM
Ford Puma's Avatar
Ford Puma Ford Puma is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Ireland
Posts: 4,392
None to speak off. Over the years I have been cut off from the world at large which is part of my problem but I am content enough with being on my own. Not mixing at all with people at the moment and feel ok with that. I know the common mindset is, its good to talk and socialise, but not everyone fits that mold.
__________________
A daily dose of positive in a world going cuckoo
Humour helps...
Hugs from:
AzulOscuro, Discombobulated, mote.of.soul
  #66  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 02:21 AM
mote.of.soul's Avatar
mote.of.soul mote.of.soul is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jan 2018
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 13,796
Just a couple of friendly hellos on my walk. That's okay.
Hugs from:
AzulOscuro, Discombobulated
  #67  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 02:26 AM
AceRimmer's Avatar
AceRimmer AceRimmer is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jun 2015
Location: US
Posts: 347
"what kind of social interaction did you get today?"

With a person? I talk to my cat a lot. Does that count?
__________________
The Universe needs an Ace
Hugs from:
Discombobulated
Thanks for this!
AzulOscuro, mote.of.soul
  #68  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 10:05 AM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by AceRimmer View Post
"what kind of social interaction did you get today?"

With a person? I talk to my cat a lot. Does that count?
We will ask the cat for its opinion in all this matter. lol!
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
  #69  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 10:07 AM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ford Puma View Post
None to speak off. Over the years I have been cut off from the world at large which is part of my problem but I am content enough with being on my own. Not mixing at all with people at the moment and feel ok with that. I know the common mindset is, its good to talk and socialise, but not everyone fits that mold.
You have described the state of nirvana for people like us, with social anxiety.
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
  #70  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 10:08 AM
AzulOscuro's Avatar
AzulOscuro AzulOscuro is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
Posts: 3,837
Quote:
Originally Posted by mote.of.soul View Post
Just a couple of friendly hellos on my walk. That's okay.
That’s more than ok! Small talk is literally a NightMAre.
__________________
Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.

Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
Hugs from:
mote.of.soul
Thanks for this!
mote.of.soul
  #71  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 12:10 PM
Discombobulated's Avatar
Discombobulated Discombobulated is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 6,015
I spoke to a volunteer friend whose family member is recovering slowly from covid, that was nice. Spoke to my sister to organise shopping arrangements for my parents. Chatted online with a friend which was nice.
Hugs from:
divine1966
  #72  
Old Apr 17, 2020, 12:46 PM
Nammu's Avatar
Nammu Nammu is offline
Crone
 
Member Since: May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
Posts: 76,870
My sister and BiL drove over to deliver books and food. We put her containers and our used books in the garage then came back in the house and they took their stuff and dropped off more food and used books for us. Then we talked though the Windows. Yay, new books and more of my sisters superior home cooked food. Weird way to socialize! But it was nice to see them.
__________________
Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann



Hugs from:
divine1966
Thanks for this!
Discombobulated
  #73  
Old Apr 18, 2020, 01:54 AM
AceRimmer's Avatar
AceRimmer AceRimmer is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jun 2015
Location: US
Posts: 347
Quote:
Originally Posted by AzulOscuro View Post
We will ask the cat for its opinion in all this matter. lol!
She says "meow". But that usually means "feed me NOW!"
__________________
The Universe needs an Ace
Hugs from:
divine1966
  #74  
Old Apr 18, 2020, 03:19 PM
Discombobulated's Avatar
Discombobulated Discombobulated is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 6,015
I spoke with my neighbour over through the fence and later made a call to a friend.
  #75  
Old Apr 20, 2020, 05:37 PM
Discombobulated's Avatar
Discombobulated Discombobulated is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2019
Location: UK
Posts: 6,015
Spoke to my dad on the phone a couple of times which was great, went to the shop and made sure to thank the assistant, messaged with a couple of friends.
Hugs from:
divine1966
Reply
Views: 3118

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:01 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.