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Old Aug 15, 2020, 01:17 AM
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It’s been 5 weeks to the day and I think I’ve cried everyday
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Old Aug 15, 2020, 12:45 PM
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Old Aug 16, 2020, 12:18 PM
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Old Aug 17, 2020, 12:41 PM
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I’ve been through this before. Sometimes we just have to face some hard issues and sad feelings. We do the best we can. I hope you feel better soon.
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Old Aug 18, 2020, 03:43 PM
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I guess I just don’t understand how you can love someone so deeply and then just move on within days, or even less and just start a new life and ignore the last 9 years.
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Old Aug 18, 2020, 06:47 PM
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If you love someone deeply you don’t just quickly get past that person suddenly no longer being a part of your life.
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Old Aug 18, 2020, 07:32 PM
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If you love someone deeply you don’t just quickly get past that person suddenly no longer being a part of your life.
I agree, I caught her in our bed naked with another man. She was sleeping across his chest. They obviously had sex before that. She keeps saying how she loves me and thinks I’m a great person and is worried about me, yet goes out with her friends or hangs out with the guy I caught her with like 4-5 times a week. Like she just moved on in a no time and I’m here shattered.
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Old Aug 18, 2020, 10:37 PM
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If you love someone deeply you don’t just quickly get past that person suddenly no longer being a part of your life.
I agree, but she’s seemed to move on without missing a beat, has had the guy she’s leaving me for over on several occasions, how’s out drinking with friends multiple times a week, just laughing and enjoying life, while it’s a struggle for me day to day.
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Old Aug 19, 2020, 09:00 PM
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I am sorry as she sounds like a selfish person.
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