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Stumbled upon this forum today because my depression has become unbearable. I will give this a try. It seems to of worked for a decent amount of people hopefully it will work for me.
Hi hujikl. I'm glad you're trying . You've got nothing to lose for sure.

Here's a little refinement that I used with the last group of patients that I talked to at Brigham and Women's hospital here: When you're going around making silly fun decisions, it's especially helpful to start off choosing things to do that you would not normally do. You could do this now, for instance. Stand there, and think of something new that you would not normally do, and snap your fingers if and when you decide to do it. Now, for instance, I have decided to put my mouse on top of my head for 10 seconds. Often, walking down the street, I decide to touch a fire hydrant or stop and look or listen to something in particular or to nothing in particular. I think that these tiny, new, silly fun things can be very helpful, especially when you're starting. Feel free to PM me if you want too.

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The professionals at BU have invited me to also do sessions for Boston University students starting on the 21'st (as well as B&W hospital). I'm looking forward to that. - vital
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I had never before heard of this, but it makes complete sense and I congratulate your committed efforts and fine accomplishments! If you have not already done so, please consider subscribing here in order to possibly eventually become a TED Fellow! While reading some of your posts here, I could easily hear you on the TED stage while enthusiastically explaining the SNAP Club to be about something other than Food Stamps...


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I had never before heard of this, but it makes complete sense and I congratulate your committed efforts and fine accomplishments! If you have not already done so, please consider subscribing here in order to possibly eventually become a TED Fellow! While reading some of your posts here, I could easily hear you on the TED stage while enthusiastically explaining the SNAP Club to be about something other than Food Stamps...

Thanks Lee. That's very kind of you and maybe not a bad idea!

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Hi Vital!
Thank you so much for posting this. It has been some time, and I was wondering if the technique has still been working for you? I started a few days ago and actually felt better right away, but it hasn't quite settled into a habit yet (as ALL habits take time) and I do have a few concerns:
1. You mention in the original post that you've been snapping for over ten months. Do you still have to literally snap, or has it now become a habit so engrained in you that the actual snapping isn't necessary anymore?
2. Even if this does work for me long-term, I'm hesitant to have another "tick" that alienates me, so to speak. Instead of snapping (as I do make decisions on actions all the time when I'm either holding a baby or driving), I've been clicking my tongue. But now I do it ALL the time, even when it's not for making consciousness decisions. I already have a long-standing habit of nervously humming, and I so don't want to become the crazy humming/clucking/snapping lady at the bus stop or anywhere else in public. Is it possible for the technique to eradicate my depression effectively if applied only in private settings? I'm either by myself or caring for an infant most of the time...
3. What if I forget to do it/can't (because I have something in my mouth or what not) every single time? Will I regress? Or are all the healthful benefits of all the times that I've "done it when I can" still there? And remembering to do it when I can only adds to my recovery, even if it isn't for EVERY decision?
4. Lastly (and I really hope you don't take this to wrong way), but if you've successfully eradicated your depression as you say, why are you still so active in this community? I think it's great that you're helping others, and I really hope that you continue to do so...I'm just really curious. I know that when I finally "cure" my depression, I'll want to eventually "leave the past in the past" by distancing myself from the distractions that I had when I was a depressed person.

Thanks so much for all that you do!
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Hi Vital!
Thank you so much for posting this. It has been some time, and I was wondering if the technique has still been working for you? I started a few days ago and actually felt better right away, but it hasn't quite settled into a habit yet (as ALL habits take time) and I do have a few concerns:
1. You mention in the original post that you've been snapping for over ten months. Do you still have to literally snap, or has it now become a habit so engrained in you that the actual snapping isn't necessary anymore?
2. Even if this does work for me long-term, I'm hesitant to have another "tick" that alienates me, so to speak. Instead of snapping (as I do make decisions on actions all the time when I'm either holding a baby or driving), I've been clicking my tongue. But now I do it ALL the time, even when it's not for making consciousness decisions. I already have a long-standing habit of nervously humming, and I so don't want to become the crazy humming/clucking/snapping lady at the bus stop or anywhere else in public. Is it possible for the technique to eradicate my depression effectively if applied only in private settings? I'm either by myself or caring for an infant most of the time...
3. What if I forget to do it/can't (because I have something in my mouth or what not) every single time? Will I regress? Or are all the healthful benefits of all the times that I've "done it when I can" still there? And remembering to do it when I can only adds to my recovery, even if it isn't for EVERY decision?
4. Lastly (and I really hope you don't take this to wrong way), but if you've successfully eradicated your depression as you say, why are you still so active in this community? I think it's great that you're helping others, and I really hope that you continue to do so...I'm just really curious. I know that when I finally "cure" my depression, I'll want to eventually "leave the past in the past" by distancing myself from the distractions that I had when I was a depressed person.

Thanks so much for all that you do!
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You're very welcome. I'm so glad that it's at least starting to work for you. If you keep it up, you may find wonderful things happening .

1. It's been almost 3 years now and I still literally snap my fingers many many times a day. I wouldn't call it a habit at all, though. It only really works if you stop and consciously savor that little silly decision you're making. I think one of the very best ways to do it is to stop (you might do it right now) and think of something that you would not normally do. Anything at all. Then, snap your fingers at the moment you decide to actually do it. This is often the first exercise I do with patients.

2. I was surprised to find that people don't mind if you boldly snap your fingers in almost any circumstances. It might help that I usually have a big smile when I do it. In a situation where it would be rude, though, I imagine the word S N A P in big colorful letters instead.

3. It's not important to do it every single time you make a decision, but I think you'll find that if you find yourself sinking a bit, think back, and I think you'll see that you've been forgetting to do it. At least that's my experience. Don't worry, though, it's always there waiting for you. It doesn't wear off.

4. I am willing to spend a lot of time helping others just because I know what it's like being seriously depressed for years and years. If I can help people escape that, easily and even while having fun, what could be better? I don't feel bad about being depressed all those years, strangely enough. It's as if I spent my life dragging chains around without noticing it, and suddenly I just removed them. The immediate feeling of relief is much greater than regret for the past.

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I am, according to the Sanity Test, almost insane....so I want to try this. I hope it works. It brought a smile to my face and that is a good start. Thank you so much.

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Here is how I understood and finally escaped from my own depression. It worked so well, that I really think it could help others too. Please respond if this rings true in your experience.

I'm impressed by the many insightful, kind and courageous posts at this site.

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How to Understand and then Escape from Depression

September 23, 2014

I have been depressed for most of my life, and, at various times, I have tried most of the recommended treatments for depression. I have tried Saint John’s Wort, exercise, Yoga, talk therapy, SSRIs, thyroid supplements and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. In my case, I would say that thyroid supplements, exercise and Yoga helped the most and all of them helped at least a little bit. Unfortunately, none of these treatments helped dramatically. Then, however, in late 2013 and early 2014, I finally figured it out. I came to understand what was happening in my own head and why it was causing my own depression and I was able to figure out a way to escape. I don’t mean that I am now successfully managing my depression. I mean it’s gone. I am writing up what I think is going on and what I did to escape because I don’t think that my case is unusual. I think that exactly the same thing will work for many people.

THE ROOT CAUSE OF DEPRESSION

I have no medical training, but the people who do will tell you that depression can be caused by a number of specific problems including vitamin B12 deficiency, hypothyroidism, exposure to traumatic events, heavy metal toxicity and probably more things that I don’t know about. That is why, if you think you have depression, you should see a medical doctor. Depression is known to run in families and, so, it is thought that there is at least a genetic predisposition to depression. Depressives have chronic stress and may have changes in their brain chemistry such as reduced serotonin levels and may accumulate damage to their hippocampus. Depressives have more health problems and cognitive difficulties and are at greater risk of suicide than the general population. That’s what they say in popular books and in Wikipedia, anyway. I believe it, too. However, I also think that the popular and medical understanding of depression has missed an essential point. I believe that there is, after all, a simple, single, psychological root cause of depression.

• Depression is caused by an unconscious withdrawal of participation in a person’s own internal decision making processes.

Note the qualifier unconscious. A depressed person does not choose it or realize it, but they have unconsciously turned away from the internal process that determines what happens in their life. A depressed person continues to live, but they do not continue to decide. What happens in a depressed person’s life is dominantly determined by subconscious thoughts and feelings, which arise, uncontrolled, as reactions to current events and to the thoughts and feelings from the moment before. A depressed person is mainly on autopilot without realizing that they are mainly on autopilot. A depressed person will do what they always do, say what they always say, feel what they always feel and think what they always think. A depressed person “thinks without thinking.” A depressed person thinks without deciding to think.

If this is correct, what happens to someone when they unconsciously give up deciding what they do?

1. CHRONIC STRESS. If a depressed person actually has to do something, and they don’t decide anything, how do they do it? The answer is that they wait until an unconscious process forces them to do it. If a depressed person has to do their taxes, for instance, they will not decide at some moment to do their taxes. Instead, they will wait until the fear of the consequences of not doing their taxes forces them into doing their taxes. Depressed people will procrastinate about almost anything that they do not habitually do. The process of doing almost any necessary task is then necessarily emotional, stressful and unpleasant, because each necessity of life brings with it a rising tide of negative emotions, which only recede when the action is eventually forced. That is why, I believe, depressives almost automatically have chronic stress. As is well known, chronic stress can be quite physically harmful and surely leads to many of the negative consequences of depression. From my point of view, however, chronic stress is only a symptom of the underlying problem.

2. BEING HARMED BY ONES OWN THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. It has often been observed that a depressed person will suffer from compulsive, self-defeating negative thoughts and feelings. In Richard O’Connor’s excellent book Undoing Depression, for example, negative thoughts are classified as Overgeneralizing, Selective abstraction, Excessive responsibility, Self-reference, Catastrophizing and Dichotomous thinking. Depressives are said to have “depressogenic assumptions” – false beliefs that set one up for depression. As explained by O’Connor, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy aims to collaborate with the patient in changing these habits of faulty thinking. I am not surprised that this sort of treatment can be helpful. However, I see a minor and a major problem. The minor problem is that the negative thoughts and beliefs of depressives are often actually insightful and correct, even if they are also sometimes self-fulfilling. The correctness of ones own thoughts makes it difficult to talk oneself into not thinking them. That is, however, only the minor problem. The major problem is that negative thoughts, beliefs and “depressogenic assumptions” are, once again, only symptoms of the underlying problem. The actual content of these thoughts, beliefs and assumptions is incidental. It does not matter if they are true or if they are false. What matters is that a depressed person has such thoughts and beliefs and feelings without deciding to have such thoughts and beliefs and feelings.

3. THE DOWNWARD SPIRAL. Many of the problems that come from 1 and 2 above make a depressive’s life vulnerable to an unstable downward spiral. Being under stress, for example, makes it hard to think and function, which then leads to disapproval from others or loss of status and, thus, to more stress and so on, repeating. Humans share with other animals the charming instinct to attack someone who shows fear or weakness. Thus, if you are fearful, you may be attacked and will have even more reason to be fearful. For a depressed person this is all too familiar.

Actually, I suspect that many people have “pre-depression”. They are in the state as I have described it, but they will only run into the kind of overt major symptoms that cause people to seek help if a traumatic event triggers the above mentioned downward spiral. For example,

QUIZ: What do the following hypothetical people have in common?

1. A severely depressed person who gets little pleasure out of life and can barely function.
2. A highly functioning compulsive workaholic.
3. A video game addict who plays a video game for 16 hours a day for days at a time.

ANSWER: They all have the same underlying problem. They have all unconsciously let go of the reins and they are all doing what they do without actually deciding to do what they do. They may or may not have the usual overt symptoms of depression, but they are all vulnerable to the downward spiral.

ESCAPE

Depression is often described as a complex multi-faceted syndrome with no single cause and no simple treatment. If I am correct (and I must admit that this is a very big if), then this sort of statement is just wrong. I am claiming that depression does have a single, fairly simple, root cause. The only real difficulty in solving the problem is that the process of slipping into the state where you are not deciding things is an unconscious process. It is hard to stop it by an act of will or out of understanding because you just don’t notice it when it happens. That’s why, I believe, depression is a hard problem to fix with talk therapy. You can have lots of realizations and insights about yourself, but understanding why you have a particular set of dysfunctional thoughts and feelings is not really the point. The point is to not have thoughts and feelings in general in an uncontrolled unconscious manner. At some point, then, it occurred to me that directly training my unconscious might be an interesting try. I am not an expert on depression, but, after all, it is happening in my own head and who knows more about what’s happening in my own head than I do? I will now describe what I did and predict what will happen to you if you follow along.

THE RULES OF SNAP CLUB

This game is simple and fun and easy to do. I am rashly claiming that it will fix your depression. It’s easy enough to try.

The rules are as follows:

1. DO ANYTHING YOU WANT ANYTIME YOU WANT.

I think that you will agree that Rule #1 is easy to follow. For example, if you are feeling terrible and you just want to lie in bed all weekend, go ahead and do that. You are still obeying Rule #1.

2. IF YOU DECIDE TO DO SOMETHING, JUST AT THE MOMENT WHEN YOU DECIDE, SNAP YOUR FINGERS.

A word about Rule #2. I don’t mean that you should decide to do something in the future like “I’m going to exercise more.” I am talking about deciding to do something immediately before you physically do it. For instance, if you are sitting, you might or might not decide to stand up at some point. If you decide to stand up, at the moment when you actually decide to stand up, SNAP YOUR FINGERS and then stand up. Notice that no will power is involved. If you don’t feel like standing up, then don’t. But, by definition, the SNAP will immediately precede an action on your part because I’m telling you to just wait until you’re about to do it and then SNAP at that moment. Suppose, for example, that you are feeling terrible as described above. No matter how terrible you are feeling, you will occasionally turn your head, roll over, go to the bathroom to pee or do something. To play the game, you just have to precede turning your head with a decision to turn your head and SNAP just before you turn your head. You are then obeying Rule #1 and Rule #2.

Based on what happened in my case, I am predicting that the following will also happen to you if you play SNAP CLUB. This all happened to me.

• You will find that there is a big qualitative difference between doing a thing and deciding to do a thing and then doing that same thing.

• You will be shocked to discover that very little of what you do during the day is preceded by any conscious decision at all. In my case, I could go for days or even weeks without deciding anything.

• You will find that the SNAP is quite enjoyable, no matter how tiny a thing it is you are deciding to do. In my case, I snap hundreds of times a day or more. I often pick out nonsense things to do just to have the experience of deciding and then doing them.

• After a while, you will notice a growing sense of power and vitality. Your brain will begin to subconsciously learn that every time you snap your fingers, something happens. You may, for example, see a sink full of dishes to wash and then have the feeling that this is no problem because all you have to do is snap your fingers and it will get done! Although this makes no sense, it appears to work anyway. That’s the subconscious for you.

• After some time, you will find yourself thinking negative thoughts in response to some event in your life. You will notice that you are having unpleasant thoughts and it will occur to you that you might decide not to have these unpleasant thoughts and to precede this decision with a SNAP. You will discover that this works.

• After some time, you will find yourself feeling an unpleasant emotion like fear or anger or resentment in response to some event in your life. It will occur to you that you might decide not to feel these unpleasant emotions and to precede this decision with a SNAP. You will discover that this works.

• After a longer time, an event will happen in your life that used to cause you prolonged trauma and internal suffering. You will realize that you are now reacting differently than you would have before. You will realize that you are recovering from depression.

As ridiculous as it seems, I believe that SNAP CLUB has a profound effect on the root process of depression. I believe that it trains your brain to actively participate and enjoy making decisions, no matter how small the decisions are. Also, as I have described it, each SNAP is for an action that you take at the moment of the SNAP, so it’s possible that there is a beneficial effect in automatically causing present moment awareness as in Buddhist or Zen mindfulness practices. As I write these words, the only evidence I have for my rather strong claims is my own experience. On the plus side, this is very easy and safe to try. In my experience, the positive effects came within the first day and seem to continue to increase even ten months after I started. From the scientific point of view, of course, this all needs to be confirmed.

Did this work for you? If it did, I have to mention that there are three more rules of SNAP CLUB. The third rule of snap club is:

3. YOU MUST TALK ABOUT SNAP CLUB.

The fourth rule of SNAP CLUB is:

4. YOU MUST TALK ABOUT SNAP CLUB.

The fifth rule of SNAP CLUB is:

5. YOU MUST TALK ABOUT SNAP CLUB.

That’s the last rule of SNAP CLUB.

THE MAGIC OF SNAPPING

Some people can’t snap their fingers. That’s OK. I think that any emphatic gesture would actually work well as a substitute in SNAP CLUB. Snapping is not magic in that sense. It might even be that inventing your own emphatic gesture would be even more empowering and an improvement over what I am saying. On the other hand, snapping your fingers is a gesture of impressive potency. It almost automatically brings up positive feelings of power and vitality. SNAPPING seems to say:

I am here.
I am not afraid.
I am in charge.
I am deciding.

as well as occasionally saying: Oh no you didn’t!

I hope that this works for you as it did for me. The advice to “snap out of it” is famously not at all a helpful thing to say to a depressed person. The strange and ironic thing is that this crude advice has a grain of truth to it. You have to, however, take the advice extremely literally, in Forrest Gump style. You have to keep snapping.

WHY DOES DEPRESSION HAPPEN?

If what I am saying here is correct, the main prediction is that SNAP CLUB will dramatically help depression for many depressives, particularly when there is not a known underlying physical problem. In a way, if this works, many people can use SNAP club to get better and maybe nothing else really matters compared to that. Even so, if it does work, it does suggest a question: What causes the depressive transition to passivity in the first place? I do have a guess about that. It is well known that when a person is afraid, there is a “fight or flight” instinct and constantly being in this state causes chronic stress. But another, familiar, and easy to understand survival strategy is to freeze in place and not move a muscle. My guess is that in a depressive, it is the survival instinct to freeze which causes the transition from deciding and vitality to internal subconscious passivity. Depressives, perhaps, are vulnerable to being unconsciously pushed into a “half frozen” passive state where the survival instinct to not do anything keeps them from actively and vitally participating in their own lives.

I have a pdf version of this paper where I end with randomly chosen images of people snapping their fingers from the internet. You may have fun searching for such images. You can see for yourself whether these people are feeling vitality and empowerment or depression and helplessness.
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This is very interesting, I saw this post a few weeks ago and have done this quite a lot the past few days. I'm noticing I feel like I'm more in control of my life and that I care more about what I'm doing. I also do more things that I actually enjoy. And so far it has really helped me to not to ruminate as much as before, like you've mentioned a few times in your post, I think this exercise really helps you to be in the moment. It's really cool!

I wonder if you've ever heard of Stephen Ilardi, he's a professor of psychology and have done a lot of research on depression. (Inserting link to one of his lectures here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HDFEbsGRlA). He talks about how they've actually found that when someone is depressed the signals in your brain that fires up when you have a thought thinking you should do something e.g. clean your apartment and then makes you do it, does not work. In other words, the signals in your brain that helps you go from thought to action does not work in a depressed brain. That's why a depressed person can know exactly what needs to be done, but still be unable to do it. And I wonder if this "snapping-exercise" maybe somehow helps you bypass that or somehow helps the brain to function better. I don't know, it's a long shot but it made me think when I read your post. Would be interesting to research.
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This is very interesting, I saw this post a few weeks ago and have done this quite a lot the past few days. I'm noticing I feel like I'm more in control of my life and that I care more about what I'm doing. I also do more things that I actually enjoy. And so far it has really helped me to not to ruminate as much as before, like you've mentioned a few times in your post, I think this exercise really helps you to be in the moment. It's really cool!

I wonder if you've ever heard of Stephen Ilardi, he's a professor of psychology and have done a lot of research on depression. (Inserting link to one of his lectures here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HDFEbsGRlA). He talks about how they've actually found that when someone is depressed the signals in your brain that fires up when you have a thought thinking you should do something e.g. clean your apartment and then makes you do it, does not work. In other words, the signals in your brain that helps you go from thought to action does not work in a depressed brain. That's why a depressed person can know exactly what needs to be done, but still be unable to do it. And I wonder if this "snapping-exercise" maybe somehow helps you bypass that or somehow helps the brain to function better. I don't know, it's a long shot but it made me think when I read your post. Would be interesting to research.
Hi Lily,

Thanks for the comments!

I haven't heard of Stephen Ilardi, but I'll look him up for sure.

I don't think your idea is a long shot at all. I think you are exactly right. If you look up the part of your brain that is most involved in making conscious decisions, it's the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex, (the dlPFC). Guess what part of the brain is most suppressed in depressed people? The dlPFC! That's exactly what you'd expect if I'm right about what's going on.

I'm so glad you're getting benefits from it. You may find yourself getting better and better and feel like you're really breaking free.

All the best,

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I just read this- I am working in a Workbook for Depression and got stuck at Write Your Anti-Depression mission statement.
The original post was so long, I read only the ending... Then more and more, and now I am snapping along with each movement.
You're right, it is easy to "play" and helps with being mindful (something) I've been struggling with in DBT.
So! Guess what I'm going to write as mi mission statement?! SNAP!

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The professionals at BU have invited me to also do sessions for Boston University students starting on the 21'st (as well as B&W hospital). I'm looking forward to that. - vital
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I know this is an old thread, but has anyone else had success with this method? It sounds intriguing!
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Hi vickster. I'm still around if you want to PM. It's easy and fun to try. Give it a go and let us know how it goes.

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With summer ending and it getting colder and darker, I'm really noticing more sadness among my friends, even a little bit in me. Snap club is still working for me and I know that I can always escape from a bad mood any old time I want to.

So if September is getting you down, give this a try. - vital
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I think you are on to something here.
When I was working my way out of depression, I found it super consoling to do something the very second I had the inclination. Like to turn the radio station, or to randomly turn down a side street to see what was down there. I interpreted it more of skipping over the internal conversation of like could I? should I? what if I? What does it mean if I? I kind of quit making decisions rather than started making decisions. The happy part came from going with my gut, I believe rather than my brain. But I seemed to get the same result.

Following this thread. thanks for sharing!
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Nice!!
I think you are on to something here.
When I was working my way out of depression, I found it super consoling to do something the very second I had the inclination. Like to turn the radio station, or to randomly turn down a side street to see what was down there. I interpreted it more of skipping over the internal conversation of like could I? should I? what if I? What does it mean if I? I kind of quit making decisions rather than started making decisions. The happy part came from going with my gut, I believe rather than my brain. But I seemed to get the same result.

Following this thread. thanks for sharing!
That's very interesting Winterbritt! I'll bet the same parts of our brains is lighting up when we do our respective things. It's amazing how well it works, isn't it? It's almost like a spell has been broken and you are suddenly free. With a little practice, I found that I can change how I feel as well as what I do. - vital
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That's very interesting Winterbritt! I'll bet the same parts of our brains is lighting up when we do our respective things. It's amazing how well it works, isn't it? It's almost like a spell has been broken and you are suddenly free. With a little practice, I found that I can change how I feel as well as what I do. - vital
Yep! It feels exactly like a spell has been broken!

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Hello to my old friends out there.

With summer ending and it getting colder and darker, I'm really noticing more sadness among my friends, even a little bit in me. Snap club is still working for me and I know that I can always escape from a bad mood any old time I want to.

So if September is getting you down, give this a try. - vital


What is that " snap club "?

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Hi vickster. I'm still around if you want to PM. It's easy and fun to try. Give it a go and let us know how it goes.


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I would like to try this method. What is it exactly?

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