[Lexicon78]

I don't know where to post this...I don't even feel like posting at all. Me and my bf broke up...he won't even talk to me.

I haven't gotten dressed in days, I'm barely eating, I feel like there is such a weight holding me down, I don't get out of bed much, I have to make myself bathe...I think you guys get my drift.

Why do men lie so much? He promised me he was in it for the long haul....we've only been together for 5 months. I don't understand what happened.

[Fuzzybear]

Oh Lex, I kinda relate to this one I am sorry you are hurting There ARE some good men in this world, my hubby is one

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[Nerak]

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I am goiong through a breakup myself. I know how hard it is. I feel your pain. She told me the same thing he told you. I'm so sorry that this had to happen. Being BP, I know depression well and I'm sorry you're suffering from that as well. If there's anything I can do, please let me know. I sure do have good ears.

Ryan

[Myzen]

HI Lexicon,

This is an old chestnut but I think it's still true - If he hasn't looked after you, then he wasn't worth it. My guess is that the right person is still out there.

I hope things get easier for you.

Cheers, Myzen.

[Wants2Fly]

I understand, Lexy. My mate told me, "I'll never leave you, Pinky" -- for 15 years!

When Hillary Clinton first heard the story that Bill was, you know, with Monica, she wrote that she felt like she couldn't breathe in her autobiography.

For the next 20 months after I was abandoned, I had to focus on breathing and putting one step in front of another, and taking showers, and eating. I've just taken over paying my bills again -- and I realize that I was mentally unable to do this with something of a shock. Not just not working and without money -- but unable to keep track of bill paying.

I'm so sorry that you are feeling so awful. But know that it is a commone experience, and we live through it. I'm not quite sure how, but we do.

[silver_queen]

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I am so sorry that you're feeling this pain...I went through this also and know how upsetting this is. I hope that you can talk to a therapist and get some "face help" (as in person) for your feelings. I can say that time will help, but I won't lie and say that it will be soon. It takes awhile to get through this and process it to a point that you're comfortable again.....pat

[Wants2Fly]

Yep. Therapy and time. Good thoughts, Pat.

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[Lexicon78]

Found out he's in love with me. He was just scared of what he was feeling...unfortunately he couldn't handle our breakup so he's in the hospital. This broke my heart. I wish I could do so much more for him, but I guess the only thing I can do right now is be there for him.

[Wants2Fly]

I am glad that you have the relief of feeling that the person you love returns your love.

It does sound as if you would benefit from couples counseling, once he is out of the hospital.

Best wishes, Lexicon