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Old May 21, 2009, 06:28 AM
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Why F-ing bother? There's no point.
Friend make syou think they're coming
over then they don't show, no text or
f-ing nothing to say they aren't coming.
F**k it all
Helllloooooooo depression and feeling
f-ing worthless AGAIN!!!!
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Old May 21, 2009, 08:55 AM
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A dashed hope for some companionship - truly disheartening; I'm sorry. Those kinds of feelings can really gnaw away at your spirit.

I wish you a much more successful friendly visit soon!
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Old May 21, 2009, 10:36 PM
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I know how you feel. It isn't nice to expect someone to visit once they have stated that they will come over, for them not to even bother to let you know they have changed their plans. Has happened to me on more than several occassions.

I stopped seeing them or ringing them, or even visiting them. Guess what never recieved a call to see what was wrong, no emails either etc. So was it their way of telling me to piss off.

Now haven't see or heard from several of these so called friends in years.

Odd how we always talked about their problems, where they had been on holidays etc yet when I started to tell anyone of them anything such as my new art work or the fact I had won a prize for an entry in an Art Show, all I ever got was 'thats nice gotta go! have to get home to clean the house' or something else was the excuse which was pretty lame.

Now I just don't bother. Fed up with being fed up with it all.
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Old May 21, 2009, 11:48 PM
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That s so mean especiallly when they act so nice and ssemlike groood freinds
Out of nowhere they stop calling 0 you feel so le down and so worn down but it all-I east more . get so down-I tmaeks ou want to vstay awsy form people-I don't do it -I wish there was a red flag ,so tso you would not get hurt0 that is the crzy thing- the never talk and are mean
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Old May 22, 2009, 07:53 PM
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I wish you happier days with Real Friends who don't use you

YOU deserve to be happy!
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Old May 22, 2009, 10:21 PM
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What Fuzzy said. Make some new friends - the real kind. They are one in a million, so don't be discouraged if takes a bit to find one. If you are looking for one, you'll find one.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Old May 23, 2009, 01:55 PM
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Most human beings are supremely self-centered and selfish, but don't let their thoughtless behavior have any effect on your opinion of yourself. No one can humiliate you without your permission, so don't give it.
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Old May 23, 2009, 03:48 PM
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I have a confession to make - I've been in your friend's shoes. I've been the one to be a no show, to not call, not text, nothing. Even ignore knocks on my dorm room door and pretend I wasn't in. Hear my friends talking about how it was weird that my light was on but I wasn't in.

But I do care about my friends. It's not that. I was just dealing with stuff.

I don't know about your friend, but please realize that just a now show... does NOT mean they don't care. I would suggest talking to the friend and telling them how it made you feel, because your feelings do matter and the friend can't make it right without knowing something is wrong.
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