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Dear Jo,
Back at you kiddo! ((((mj))))) ((((jo)))))
Thanks for sharing, we know it took a lot of strength.
You are loved here.
As you know, I am here for you whenever.
Hold your head high, for you are wonderful!

Thank you, sj...it means so much to me to know that some people really care.

You are pretty wonderful yourself!

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Jo

I feel the same way I feel that I have been manipulated and lied to .... I have been told, WRONGLY.... what both my actions and motives have been. I even wonder if you and perhaps others perceive me as a "bad person".... but I have done NOTHING WRONG

The "bad people" in my life always told me how selfish and horrible I was...... only thinking of myself. Yeah right



an "unwonderful".... according to the "bad people"
Bear

PS imnsho there are some serious "boundary issues" on this thread. I need to take care of my OWN boundaries and disgengage. I do not have the desire or ability to PLEASE everyone.

I was not going to reply to this thread.... although I bear you no ill will.... what you wrote struck such a chord with me, however, I did reply.

I now need to disengage.

Take care,
Fuzzy

Fuzzy,

The bad people are all in my past. I do not think you are a bad person, and I am sure no one else here does, either.

I think developing healthy boundaries is an admirable thing, and writing out my feelings here is part of that process for me. Being able to see the connections between certain actions and the past is helping me to put the bad people back in the past where they belong.

I hope you can find your path to healthier boundaries, too.

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Jo