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Jul 26, 2009, 07:48 AM
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When your world crashes down
how do you pick yourself up and begin again?. I have to make the most painful choice I have ever had to make and it feels like like everything is gone and I want so badly to reach out and stop it but yet I just cannot seem to do that either. As most of you know I have a really bad relationship with my daughter its like I say its white she says its black tonight however I hurt her I did not mean to but my nails scratched her and as a result she bit me yes folks she is 16yrs old Is it to much to ask for common respect i.e mum may I use your computer?. Or for her to clean up after herself etc. I wanted my own family so badly I wanted to give someone all the love that I have pent up inside but all I do is mess up there is not a day that goes by that my girl and I do not argue about something and then that fool I call hubby yells at me you just love to fight with her dont you or why do you always have to start these things where the heck is my backup and support from him?. I am sorry you must be so sick of my whinning. I just wanted to have my own family I wanted to love them and have them love me So what do I do do I leave my house and never come back or do I stay and continue to live this way the answer I do not know I do not want either
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Jul 26, 2009, 08:01 AM
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((((((((((starrina)))))))))))))
 
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Jul 26, 2009, 08:30 AM
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(((Starinna)))
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Jul 26, 2009, 08:43 AM
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(((((Starinna)))))
It sounds like there is a lot of misunderstanding going on by everyone... maybe try to get the whole family together for a family talk and try to work out the issues... but calmly, maybe in a fun environment. I don't know, just trying to help... this is very sad, I am so sorry... I hope things get better for you. Big hugs for you... 
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Jul 26, 2009, 11:02 AM
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Starrina, you're describing a situation that would be for me an unbearable nightmare. You must be exceptionally strong to have survived to this point.
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Peace to you, Starrina.
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Jul 26, 2009, 12:12 PM
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((((((((((((((((((( starrina ))))))))))))))))))
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