Can things stay good for longer than a few days?

Now to add insult to injury. Identity theft........I got a stack of bills in the mail yesterday. which would explain my worse than expected credit.

Im just done! Im killing myself trying to work and work to make ends meet. Then some idiot comes along and steals my credit..

If your gonna go that far. take all of me .......including my deluded sense of self.

Hugs ((((((( Cthomas )))))))))

That sucks and you have every right to growl about it. Have you contacted the credit card company/bank to put them straight on this? And will you be able to get your money back?

And am I even wanted here anymore?

Yes!!! We love ya!

Hey peg, this was yesterdays findings. So ive had time to stew. This is brewing a hell of a manic episode and depressive mood.....I guess Im not sure what to do at this point. I have to make phone calls, and im frozen.

I cant do anything. I just want to close up. Im working two jobs. This is just over the top.

I cant do it....

Thanks pegs.....

Im working two jobs....im overworked - undersleeping, just at my wits end, im hearing voices, auditory stuff at night. cant sleep and im exhausted. bad thoughts in my mind.

I need help. I just need help. I havent felt this bad in a while. its bound to get worse.

me

Deep breath! Pick up the phone and let them know what is going on. Then you can relax a little.

I just cant handle it.......maybe having a side business isnt smart. Maybe I should just let it go. What was I thinking???? i can barely handle my life as it is....

Im going for a walk then to start making phone calls.

wth....

I feel like im actually going to go crazy.

No you are not. You are understandably upset. Going for a walk sounds like a good idea, then make the phone calls. Hang in there.

Well I went for a walk around the block. Im no where NEAR cooled off yet. Im about to start making phone calls. I need a day to do nothing. I need help.

Between husband sick and not getting paid, mom having issues and i cant be there, two jobs. late payments....im just...well as of today i have 50 cents....and no gas in the car.

Im jsut about to cave in time to go back into hiding.

Cthomas, I can actually relate to your financial situation. Though I haven't been a victim of identity theft, I'm struggling to make sure my car is paid for and insured every month. I can understand that feeling of frustration when you can't seem to rake in enough money to pay bills. Last month was the closest I've ever come to screwing up and paying late. Actually, my car note was late but only by two days.

So I feel you! It gets hard, but I'm here for you -- as is everyone else!

Thanks,, im working on it. I just feel like im sinking - all the time. I feel like im going crazy that i want to run away (havent felt like that in a while)

Just feel downright generally run of the mill crappy. guess its not that bad huh?

c

So this isnt so bad. one company said they would write it off...now to work on the rest who are on my list to call...(im at work, its been busy)

still feel like a downer....a bigtime downer.

C

Progress! You are getting through it, good on you for doing the phone call.

I wish for good things to come your way.

Hey peg. thanks for sticking with me today. Im just about worn out at this point.

Im still down. then again i just got over a manic episode that lasted weeks.
You are the best my friend.

colleen

But look how much you CAN do - going for a walk, working 2 jobs, all this despite your condition and stressors. I can't even go for a walk, much less work. I admire your strength. I think if you just start to make the calls, things will get easier. Do you have any idea how your identity got stolen? billieJ

Take a deep breath, and take one step at a time, to -un-do what they did, you did not ask for this, it is not your fault

Thanks june.

I was beginning to think id stayed away so long nobody liked me anymore.

Thanks!!!!!!!!! you guys are good for my self esteem.

c

Yes...you are wanted and needed here. Also call the non emergency police and report what info was stolen information wise. Most police departments have an identity theft/cyber crimes unit because these things happen so frequently. You may want to call them first. They may have some suggestions to help that may not have crossed your mind. Good luck to you. Be sure and let us know this progresses.

Hey NF....thanks! i didnt realize that I should call the police on this...Im still frozen from moving forward. wondering once again, who the heck wants my identity?!?!?! But I will get on this tomorrow. just a few more to call.....

thanks for replying. Im starting to feel a bit better now.

C

(((((((((((((((((colleen))))))))))))))))

I'm always glad to see your posts, although I wish this had not happened to you , it's horrible! But I think even though it will take effort, you can get the situation "fixed"

I'm so sorry this has happened, sitting here for you, feel free to pm if you want to rant even further

sending loads of hugs

Hey turquoise!
Ok....you guys are really making my mood change...... I was really beginning to feel inferior and generally bad....

thats subject to change. Obviously thanks to you guys.

C

Be sure to contact a consumer attorney as soon as possiable. Also file a dispute with the three majior credit card companys.. You can go online to do all of this.Good luck to you,things will work out with time