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Old Nov 10, 2009, 10:41 AM
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i don't understand what i have done wrong here but ppl are being rude in response to my posts and ignoring me in different chats . Can someone please pm me or write here what i did so i can fix it.

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Old Nov 10, 2009, 10:51 AM
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I don't have any knowledge of it myself Crystalrose and haven't seen or noticed it in posts but I don't get to them all I'm afraid. The one thing is though if people are being rude to your posts then try to let it bounce off. It's easier said than done I know but sometimes people interpret things different from how it's intended or have their own issues to deal with and may not even mean to be rude. I know in the small amount of chat I've been in that it's easy to get lost when a whole group is there, especially when you send a whisper.

Try not to let it bother you too much and if it's blatant and really not nice let a mod know so they can deal with the person.

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Old Nov 10, 2009, 11:03 AM
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I don't think you have done anything wrong, people are coming from their own angles and you will find that you cannot please everyone all the time.

Chat is very different than here on the boards, it's much faster and I suggest to anyone that they make sure they are in a good place and able to handle it before entering. If people are rude to you in chat crystalrose, please save the chat and pass it on to a mod. They need to know if people are being rude.

If you find a reply to you on the boards is offensive you can let a moderator know and/or put the person on ignore.

Use PC to help you.

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Old Nov 10, 2009, 11:20 AM
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i don't understand what i have done wrong here but ppl are being rude in response to my posts and ignoring me in different chats . Can someone please pm me or write here what i did so i can fix it.
Hi crystalrose. I don't think I have spoken to you before, but I have had the same issues. I will post something and people take it so differntly than what I meant it as and their response is, well just very unhelpful and very hurtful. Sometimes even when you point it out to them, they still don't do anything to change it and will argue with you. Realize who these people are and put them on ignore.

As far as chat. I found chat is very good if you have someone that you know you can chat with and go in a private room and chat with just a few people that you know. This way, you are with people that youknow understand you and won't offend you.

Take care and I hope this help you. You can always PM if you would like.
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Old Nov 10, 2009, 11:44 AM
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We've played some games crystalrose and I have never noticed anything "wrong" from you. I don't chat, so I am sorry you had a rude experience there.
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Old Nov 10, 2009, 11:53 AM
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I haven't noticed anything wrong either
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Old Nov 10, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Do you feel like your secrets game was ignored? I played and enjoyed it!
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Old Nov 10, 2009, 04:56 PM
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I hope I wasn't one you thought was ignoring you in chat. When I go to chat I very seldom have anything to say to anybody but mostly just listen to what other people have to say. I am just not very "chatty" I suppose you could say.
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Old Nov 10, 2009, 05:17 PM
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I can't say I've noticed anything "wrong" with any of your posts that I've read. I'm sorry you feel people are being rude to you. Please know that the kind outnumber the unkind TENFOLD here. Just let the rude comments wash over you and know that there are people here who do care about you and wish you well.
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Old Nov 10, 2009, 08:59 PM
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I'm sorry you are finding people are rude in responding to your posts. I suggest that you put them on ignore if you find the same people doing it. You shouldn't have to be distressed while you are here. Also, if you feel you are having trouble with chats, have you gone into a moderated chat? I don't usually do the "free form" chat because it goes so fast, but I find the scheduled chats very helpful. If you haven't gone into one of those check them out. I especially like the ones hosted by DocJohn. I hope you find supportive people and are able to ignore the others.
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Old Nov 11, 2009, 03:22 AM
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thanks everyone. It wasn't about the secrets game, although there was a rude comment there. I do enjoy the chats i especially like the doc john chats.
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Old Nov 11, 2009, 04:25 PM
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Hey crystalrose! I enjoy chatting with ya! Jus been stayin clear recently. Will go on 2moro tho i think. Hope to see ya there! Hugs to you!
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