what is the use....

What is the use anymore...People on here hate me, boot me out... don't want to talk to me...don't want to hear me...I will just stop now and not waste my time typing anymore. Not like anyone is going to care anyways............

Please don't feel that way, I'm sorry you are feeling like that. Sending some supportive hugs your way.

I certainly don't hate you and I don't mind listening ((Tryingtobeme)). Why are you feeling sad? Now is the time you need support, so go ahead type away

Oh, dear! I hope I haven't unthinkingly sent you that impression. You're hurt. Your hurt is our concern.

Why do you feel that way, tryingtobeme? I noticed you dropped by the DBT chat today & were gone so soon. I sometimes feel like no one here really wants to read anything I post, either, b/c I have such low self-esteem, & b/c I tend to distort things when I'm very stressed out. I think you are going thru a bad time, for what reason I don't know, but maybe it will help you to reach out to us.

(((((tryingtobeme)))))
I am sorry you feel this way. I agree with Psyched, I tend to do that also, my therapist reminds me constantly that it is not reality. I always think I know how other people feel but I have been proven wrong...the only thing I can be sure of is how I feel.
Hope you feel better soon.

How about letting us know how you are doing, tryingtobeme?

(((((tryingtobeme))))) I'm sorry you are feeling so rejected and dejected right now, but I can assure you that most everyone here has felt the very same as you from time to time as others have already pointed out here. Nevertheless, I know that even knowing this does little to alleviate your distress.

The thing is that everyone here is struggling with myriad mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical issues; although we may want to respond to and be supportive of others, sometimes we are so paralyzed by our own tormented psyches and bodies that we are unable to respond - for this reason, we all need to be tolerant and forgiving of each other. But, I do know that there are many here, including myself, who gladly accept and respond to PMs even when we are not up to being present in the forums.

So, please don't give up on yourself or us, tryingtobeme, and try not to assume that others hate you or just don't care - more than likely, that is not the case at all. If at any time you are not receiving the level of consolation and support that you need when you need it by posting in the forums, please do not hesitate to PM me and/or others here that you know because it is often easier for us to focus and respond one-on-one when we are having difficulties with our own issues. Sending you many, many hugs. lynn09

Plenty people do care about you here, and I'm one of them. Sending hugs >>>>>

((((((((( tryingtobeme )))))))))

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I know I don't hate you, and judging by the number of responses you've had so far, it looks like a lot of people around here appreciate your presence and are worried about you! Are you sure this isn't the depression telling you these things? You have a family here at PC who cares and wants the best for you. Please keep us posted on how you're doing, and feel free to PM me if you want to chat, vent, whatever. I'm here and I care

Sending lots of hugs and good vibes.

If you feel that I did this to you, I am sincerely sorry. That was not at all my intention. In fact, I think I remember you posting someting on a topic I made that I very much appreciated.
I hope you come back!!