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Old Jan 09, 2010, 07:37 PM
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and i mean NOBODY.....
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Old Jan 09, 2010, 07:43 PM
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I dont know you very well but I like you
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Old Jan 09, 2010, 09:41 PM
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hi ariesmars

I don't know you either since I'm new here. However, I'd be willing to bet that those are automatic negative thoughts talking. There's nobody in the world that NOBODY doesn't like. Although we all have days when we feel like that. Especially when we're depressed. But what's more important is that YOU like you and that you stop believing those thoughts and beating yourself up. When I find myself buying into the bull***, negative thoughts about myself, I practice this exercise sometime. I stand in front of the mirror and repeat:

I'm sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you
I love you.

I repeat that a few times and usually it helps me to feel better about myself and get rid of the Yucks.

Then little hearts start poppin out of my head just like this

No really. Try it you'll see.
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Old Jan 09, 2010, 09:44 PM
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Ariesmars, how do I reply to your post? For all I know, it may truly be that no one in your corner of the world either likes you or pays you any mind. Maybe some of the folks you see do like you or could like you, but they're too timid to reach out and discover.

When I visit your page here at PsychCentral, I always find something to catch my eye. Your photos testify to a soul of great depth and many interests. Your words reflect a powerful sadness.

I may never be able to breach your sadness, but that gloom has been unable to hide you from us. It is a privilege to catch a glimpse of you.

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Old Jan 09, 2010, 09:56 PM
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hi ariesmars. I am new here. I too struggle with that despair as well, so please do not think that you are alone. NONE of my dreams came true, and I have pretty much accepted it. If you ever need just a friend to talk with....please let me know. It's ok....I understand.
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Old Jan 10, 2010, 09:16 AM
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Old Jan 10, 2010, 04:58 PM
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How well do you like you, ariesmars
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Old Jan 10, 2010, 05:05 PM
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I know how you feel. I realize that there are a few people in the world who like me fairly well but I also know that I have very little importance in anybody's life. This is the thing that is very painful - not to be important to anyone.
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Old Jan 10, 2010, 05:07 PM
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Do You wanna be friends? I Love to meet new people and make friends.
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Old Jan 10, 2010, 05:14 PM
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Do You wanna be friends? I Love to meet new people and make friends.
I would love to be your friend as well.
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Old Jan 10, 2010, 06:56 PM
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Your post breaks my heart. I'm sorry that you feel that nobody likes you. I know how painful loneliness can be; I suffer from quite a bit of it myself. Nobody should have to be alone in this world. Maybe you're not totally alone -- look at the replies you've had so far in this thread! I know there are a lot of people here who care about you and understand what you're going through. I'd like to be your friend, to show you you're not alone. Feel free to PM me any time.
Sending lots of hugs.
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Old Jan 26, 2010, 10:08 PM
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and i mean NOBODY.....
Now that can't be true,

cuz I'm here talking with you!

I hear you though. Sometimes I just feel down for no reason at all.
Those are not nice days.

Then luckily I pull out of it... and can motivate again,

Sweet tea helps.
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Old Jan 26, 2010, 10:27 PM
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Me too
Meaning- I feel that way, too, & I'm here for you, too!
PM me anytime.
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Old Jan 26, 2010, 11:19 PM
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Aww,I felt so sad reading your post, We like you here! Please continue to post, I look forward to hearing from you.
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Old Jan 26, 2010, 11:35 PM
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Looks like you have some friends to me

This should make you happy as can be

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Old Jan 29, 2010, 07:56 AM
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hey, where are you
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Old Jan 29, 2010, 12:49 PM
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Please let us know how you are doing, ariesmars.
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Old Feb 01, 2010, 10:57 PM
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I am still here, been obsessed with finding my airplane i lost. I did get it back from a guy that found it. Im so grateful for that, now i am searching for the camera i had on it. It was laying in a field across from his home, so that is where i am looking, but it was just covered with manor and that means it is likely covered and since i do not know the spot he found it and he was not home today, i did not find it today.
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Old Feb 01, 2010, 11:12 PM
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Oh, so it was the aircraft to which you had attached the camera...those videos are cool!
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Old Feb 02, 2010, 08:08 AM
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Good luck with finding the camera, ariesmars.
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Old Feb 02, 2010, 08:47 AM
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Ohh, spring manure. IHATE Spring manure! I really hope that you can ind your camera in all that, dear. Hang in there.
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