[NitaLife]

I never imagined I could make such a mess of my life, but I really have and I see no way out. My depression has immobilized me. I recently went through a divorce after escaping an abusive marriage, and entered into a relationship with a very sweet and loving guy. I have children already and now I've found out I'm pregnant. My guy wants us to get married but I was actually planning to break up with him before this happened. I'm not in love with him anymore and I told him so, but he says he can't live without me. I want a new life for myself, but instead I'm stuck in a relationship with this man and a new child to take care of. I have a long history of depression and now it's so bad I can hardly move and spend most of my time secluded in my house, which isn't hard to do since I lost my job on top of everything. I really feel my life is over and I'm paralyzed by my depression. Please help.

[perpetuallysad]

Ok, how far along pregnant are you? Also, just because you got pregnant by this guy doesn't mean you should stay with him. In fact, from personal experience I know this is the worst reason on earth to stay with someone. You will regret it. \

Your life isn't over, but you are in a hard situation. PM me if you'd like to talk about this in a more private place.

Are you seeing a therapist?

[trevorzero]

This boyfriend of yours sounds like he is more concerned with his own selfish wants than he is with your very real needs. I would be very wary of everything he says.

[Scottish1]

Do you have someone close to fall back on? If your depression is making an appearance, you probably don't feel like taking any actions right now. A close friend can be there to help you make decisions.
Do you have a therapist? If not, don't be afraid to find an emergency room. The main thing is to get help and don't get isolated.