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#1
Feb 19, 2010, 03:46 PM
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*sigh* It's just me... I am home all alone today and will be until sometime Sunday afternoon evening. I hate being home alone!!!!!
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Feb 19, 2010, 04:48 PM
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Yes, being alone is hard when you are used to having people around. Maybe we can this thread going?
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#3
Feb 19, 2010, 04:50 PM
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Thank you for responding to me.
It means a lot. 
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Feb 19, 2010, 06:53 PM
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Do you have anyone that you could call and talk to or who could call you(maybe a friend or relative) once or twice a day? Sometimes it doesn't seem so lonely if you have someone to talk to.
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Feb 19, 2010, 06:55 PM
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#6
Feb 19, 2010, 09:13 PM
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Miracle,
I'm sorry that you are alone. Do you like to read? Sometimes when I read a good book I don't care if people are around.
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"Don't turn away. Keep your gaze on the bandaged place. That's where the light enters you." Rumi "The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change." Carl Rogers |
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Feb 19, 2010, 09:29 PM
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((((Miracle1986))))
Just letting you know that you are being thought of and know you can PM me anytime and if I am here we can spend some time together. Remember our talk and do something kind for you. Know that we care and are here for you. Keep reaching out here too and letting us know how you are doing. Sending you many gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Not just now but always. Love you my friend. dps 
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#8
Feb 19, 2010, 09:44 PM
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Chick flicks, bubble baths, staying up late then sleeping in. Manicure, pedicure. Good music and dancing in your home...
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#9
Feb 19, 2010, 10:01 PM
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I am not used to having people around. Being alone is bearable for me.
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#10
Feb 19, 2010, 10:36 PM
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I hear ya, got a long, boring, lonely weekend ahead of me too. Though I guess every day is a weekend when you're unemployed anyway. It's kinda sad I'm looking forward to my T appointment just to have someone to talk to :/
I know how ya feel, and I know it sucks. I also know that sometimes every fun activity people can possibly list for you to try just give you a "meh" attitude. Hope ya found something on TV or a movie to watch, I've been distracting myself with the olympics. Though sometimes seeing these really young athletes makes me feel like a total loser heh.
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Feb 20, 2010, 08:33 PM
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How are you doing, Manda?
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#12
Feb 20, 2010, 11:05 PM
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just chiming in to say that I am alone all weekend and it IS hard. I'm still working on being ok with being alone and when there are days on end that go by without me seeing anyone or going anywhere, it really gets to my head.
ALW, a lot of times my appt w/T is the ONLY thing I have going on all week, I definitely look forward to just to get out of the HOUSE, and of course to have someone to talk to.
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Feb 21, 2010, 04:31 AM
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I too am home alone most of the time, and have gotten used to it through the years.....I'm on the computer most of the time day and night and surf through this site often.......so if you keep posting here I'll keep answering and that way the time will pass faster and it will give us both something to do till Sunday afternoon....don't
.......just  post.....Y
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And if your head explodes with dark forbodings too...I'll see you on the darkside of the moon......
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Feb 21, 2010, 11:49 AM
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G'day, Miracle1986! How goes it so far?
Occasionally (OK, often) I voice my thoughts into the air. The sound makes the house seem less empty. I've also been known to read aloud, recite poetry and texts, sing (sort of), etc. Actually, I don't feel lonely. I don't know if any of the above, stuff I do naturally, would help you. Well, here's to you getting something positive out of your solitary weekend!
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My dog  mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Feb 21, 2010, 02:16 PM
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I often feel the same way. I'm at college and my roommates go home every weekend, so most of the time I'm by myself for a couple days and I can't stand it.
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Feb 22, 2010, 07:11 PM
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I look forward to seeing T too, & having it set on the calendar. I'm going 2x per week right now, that helps. Other than that I try to get out to the store once a day (even just to buy a diet coke or something) just to be around other people - or the library or a cafe. One day at the library the guy at the cirrculation desk said to me, "you know, you can use our automated check-out system," and he pointed over at a machine in the corner. I just shook my head and said, "no thanks." I wanted to tell him he was the one person I would interact with that afternoon.
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Feb 22, 2010, 07:19 PM
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Quote:
 Hubby got home last night around 6:30pm.
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