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Old Jun 04, 2010, 08:20 PM
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I feel ok.. I have certain things running through my mind but i dont want the negativity to make me feel bad on my birthday. I dont need another crappy birthday. I feel bad about myself sometimes. The fact that i dont go anywhere and i look like hell. I have to change that this year. It seems so hard.....i cant keep feeling the same way forever. I have to find some way to feel comfortable with myself and live a successful life. Im about to officially be an adult!! I want to lose weight and get a job and not feel like s$%t anymore. I dont think im completely hopeless.......

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Old Jun 05, 2010, 04:48 AM
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18, WHOO!

Why dont you try taking the metro places? there's a nice book store at Dupont Circle.

Sometimes it helps me just to get out of the house and do something, anything. Sitting at home all day is sure to make me feel blah.
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Old Jun 05, 2010, 07:59 AM
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Congratulations, So_punk_rock! Happy 18th birthday!
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I have to change that this year.
Chances are you will change this coming year or two or three. How much control you have over the change or changes may only be discernible afterwards. Sometimes "success" involves adapting to uncontrolled change rather than causing change.

It seems you have been thinking about what you really want in life -- that's super! Have you be able to sift out those dreams that are truly your own from those "dreams" or desires others want you to have? You are constantly being influenced. It's certainly not wrong to be influenced -- we all are. My observation (not advice): many people would be happier if they were to identify and examine what and who is trying to influence them, and then tune into the few that really speak to their hearts and tune out the many that don't.

Again, I wish you an exceptionally happy and fulfilling 18th year!
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Old Jun 06, 2010, 09:03 AM
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The desire for change, I think, is the first (and biggest) step, so congrats on that I am sure if you want something bad enough you can get it.

congratulations and happy birthday for monday Hope you can keep up the positive thinking, it helps so much! I'm trying it (er on and off) myself x
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Old Jun 07, 2010, 08:50 AM
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Happy 18th Birthday
so_punk_rock !

Best wishes to you today...



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Old Jun 07, 2010, 12:12 PM
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happy happy birthday!!!
WOOOOOT! go youuuuu! -hope today's a super duper AWESOME day!!
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thank you everyone . im so happy to hear from my online friends. oh by the way, look what i got yesterday.
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