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Old Jul 31, 2010, 07:33 PM
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Yesterday we helped my son get his first car. We were so happy for him he is finely getting what we wanted for him after all those years of us fighting for just any type of break from the abuse in our life. Now that we are only a small part of his life he finely has one. We are to in a way. We now have a few people that are letting us be with them safely but we still are griving for all these years that we tried to get help and all we got was more abuse for being different. The coyotes in our life we love'em but are so mad at them at times for not hearing us. trust was broken because they had believed in the lies of others. We have no problem trusting them when they are near us to keep us safe but What about when non of the good guys around? Tired and Confused We have lived with what if's for so long it sucks. We even told Willow Warroir that it does pay to act like Budda for when we are not in the moment the past and future is so hard to let go of.
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Old Jul 31, 2010, 09:54 PM
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Hi, Anderson(s)!

Congratulations on the success of the car deal! You all go ahead and be tired -- get some rest, real rest if you can.
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Old Jul 31, 2010, 10:30 PM
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(((( (((( (((( ((((Anderson+)))) )))) )))) ))))

Rest and recouperate dear Anderson...I hope your son really enjoys his car,

Love & Hugs,

Rhiannon
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Old Aug 01, 2010, 04:14 PM
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((((((Rhiannonsmoon and Rohag))))))
Thank you both we are tired and resting too.
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Old Aug 01, 2010, 04:24 PM
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Sounds like a big day, no wonder you're tired!

I'd be tired too if I were you.

Your son must be so happy to have a car.
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Old Aug 01, 2010, 06:38 PM
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Yes, he is so happy with the car with my help he was able to get a Honda with a sun roof. What got us is that we do not live together and we missed not being able to celabrate with him and his friends. But today we spent time with some of our friends and we realized we are not so alone and we talked our selves out of a voice. We are starting to see more and more trade offs with doing what we are doing. But we still wished for more good times with our son so that we can still feel like a family.
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