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#1
Sep 27, 2010, 11:48 AM
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my family and friends started to walk away from me.. i don't know why.. i feel like they hate me.. i don't want to be alone... sorry i can't take it anymore...
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#2
Sep 27, 2010, 12:33 PM
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Hi insomniac! Welcome! Sorry you're feeling unloved and alone. That's a really bad feeling. I hope we can offer you some support here. Keep talking to us!
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#3
Sep 27, 2010, 12:51 PM
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Hi insomniacfili,
 hugs to you!Sorry to hear you are feeling alone and down. We're here to listen. ...have you seen a therapist?  Elana |
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Sep 27, 2010, 01:00 PM
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When I feel left out by the ones I love....family and what-not, I try to find someone else to talk to like on here. I have found some other people that help me feel not so alone.
We can't pick our relatives but we do pick our friends. Wishing you a better day
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#5
Sep 27, 2010, 01:28 PM
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Welcome to PC ((insomniacfili)). I'm sorry you're feeling unloved. I hope it's not true and thinking they might just be uncomfortable or scared of the mental illness. Sometimes people don't know the right way to respond so they retreat in silence. Maybe you can educate them and let them know you don't necessarily need a solution but just a kind ear and a hug. We'll be happy to listen and support.
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Sep 27, 2010, 03:02 PM
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welcome insomniac to pc
. i'm glad you found us. i believe you will find lots of support here. we all try to help each other. some days i feel alone too but know that you can start to feel better and you can start here!
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand |
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#7
Sep 27, 2010, 04:28 PM
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Welcome insomniacfili; I'm glad you decided to post and I am sorry you have been feeling unloved lately. I hope you find this site supportive.
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#8
Sep 28, 2010, 02:03 AM
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welcome insomniacfili . I know the feeling of people just turning their back. it happened to me years ago that my family did that. I think they just were not strong enough to stand by me when times were hard with depression. but they came back into my life. It wasnt that they did not love me. It was that they were not very strong. They did not have their own inner resources.
I had to find a therapist. I hope that you are able to do that. Please use this community as a place to be heard, to find comfort and support. You will find lots of people here who care lots. Are you in therapy? And are you on medication for the depression? Safe hugs for you ((((( insomniacfili)))))) |
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#9
Sep 28, 2010, 08:33 AM
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Hello and welcome to PC. I think you'll find a bunch of nice folks here that'll make you feel cared for. Mental illness is hard to deal with for our friends and family when they have so much already going on their lives. I hope your family really does love you and it's just that they dont have the inner resources (like other posters have said) to deal with how you feel right now.
If you ever feel alone, please know you are more than welcome to post on PC. 
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In depression . . . faith in deliverance, in ultimate restoration, is absent. The pain is unrelenting, and what makes the condition intolerable is the...feeling felt as truth...that no remedy will come -- not in a day, an hour, a month, or a minute. . . . It is hopelessness even more than pain that crushes the soul.-William Styron |
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#10
Sep 28, 2010, 09:21 AM
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Its not that they may not love you thats the depression speaking. Sometimes they just dont know what to do to help. I know my sons love me and I have a friend that ask me all the time what can he do to help me. But the fact is in most cases although you may be lucky enough to have people around you that want to help they cant take away the way we feel and then some of them start to avoid you as they feel useless.
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#11
Sep 28, 2010, 12:01 PM
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I am sorry you are feeling alone & unloved. Depression has a way of distorting the way we who suffer from it view the world, so maybe the people around you do love you but your depression is making it hard for you to see that?
I hope you can find someone you can talk to who can help you face-to-face. In the meantime, we are here for you. Kim |
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#12
Sep 28, 2010, 12:53 PM
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