A little down

I don't know why I'm letting this bother me, but I can't sleep. My bf didn't come to bed, again. He always falls asleep on the couch and it bothers me a lot. I tried waking him to come to bed, but he just opened his eyes and went back to sleep. I know he's not my ex, who often did this because she did not want to be around me any more or was mad at me. I know I did not do anything wrong, but this recurrent falling asleep on the couch really makes me think that my bf now does not want me.

I know that this is my issue, but I struggle so much with it.

((( Lexi)))) I am sorry you are feeling so down..I have known a lot of men my dad included who sleep on the sofa a lot..Its like they are beat and watching TV or reading and wham they go to sleep and its hard to wake them..That doesn't make your bed feel less empty ..Can you maybe talk with him about this when he is wide awake and kinda start moving him to tv watching in the bedroom near nightfall?

(((((((((lexi)))))))))))))

sounds like my hubby...of 18 yrs! he just falls asleep then can't wake up enough to go to bed. when i try, he don't want to move.

gl. it bothered me for forever too, but he's still here.

kd

((((((((Lexi)))))))))))

My hubby falls asleep on the couch alot too. I know it's an issue you have to deal with though. Maybe you can talk to your bf and tell him how much it bothers you, and why it bothers you.