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Oct 23, 2005, 11:17 AM
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i have been looking things up and believe i have "Dependent personality disorder " and i dont know what to do im afriad i am losing my family i am afraid of life in general i work my butt off every day and come home to someone i feel doesnt want me here ,,,but i love her so much and could not stand losing her but if it m,akes her happy not to have me around i am so tempted to give her what she wants at the expensive of the affect it is going to have on me ......well anyways i will stop annoying all of you ...thanks for letting me have a few words .
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Oct 23, 2005, 11:20 AM
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You aren't annoying us at all. Have you tried talking to her about this? Have you thought about seeing a psychiatrist? Just wondering.
 Maybe you should try talking to your significant other about how you are feeling. She might not feel that way at all.
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Oct 23, 2005, 11:21 AM
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Oh, and welcome to PC.
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Oct 23, 2005, 12:54 PM
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Welcome Jaywood,
You're not annoying anyone, don't be silly. If she didn't want to be with you, she wouldn't be there. Can you talk to her about this and your feelings? You can't buy somebody's love. So, don't go making yourself broke trying. I think you may be clouding reality with your feelings of insecurity. Try telling her how you feel and see how she responds.
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Oct 23, 2005, 01:16 PM
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Jaywood,
I agree with what the others have said. And I want to add, if you think you have a disorder (and it seems that you do, since you did some research) you really should see a doctor. Self-diagnosis is impossible and could be misleading... if you start to live up to the symptoms that you believe your diagnosis to be. The only one who can give you a true diagnosis is a trained psychiatrist. They are also the ones who can provide help for this, whether prescribing meds or recommending therapy. Bottom line is there is relief from these uncomfortable feelings, buy you have to seek it out from the right places. You have taken the steps of realizing that things could be better, that you want them to be better, and taking steps to find out how. This place can provide great support while you are seeking help, so I hope you feel welcome here and continue to post. You aren't annoying anyone, that is what we are here for.
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Oct 23, 2005, 11:35 PM
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Welcome to the forums, Jaywood.
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Oct 24, 2005, 12:13 AM
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Hello Jaywood,
For personal and currently what I am going through, the person you love is more likely not meaning to act the way she does. TO be honest out of my depression and what I have learned from here it paranoia out of depression and what we struggling with in our minds. Sometimes I feel that Tony( my love of my life) just seem tired of me and my problems, but after a moment of crying and stress we talk about it. Best thing to do is talk to your partner, let them know what going on. More then likely like my partner had no clue what was going on and was worried so they gave you alittle space to work things out. Welcome to this woundeful fourm. I'm new here to, the ecourgment has somewhat help me open my eyes and seeing that I was not the only person who feel like they want to disappear. |
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Oct 24, 2005, 01:18 AM
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Welcome jaywood
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It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence, to be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. They presented him the words: "And this, too, shall pass away." How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction! ---"Address before the Wisconsin State Agricultural Society". Abraham Lincoln Online. Milwaukee, Wisconsin. September 30, 1859. |
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