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Dec 05, 2005, 12:32 PM
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why does this month make so many ppl sad, i allways get stressed trying to do all the things that need doing with the little money we have , then there is wat do you get the children when there is so many things out there that are just crazes then there are the things they need , i allways try to get my children some new clothes and allways ask wat they want but it doesnt mean they will get the things they ask for , because some things are just not availble,
and this time of year everyone is more stressed than any other time i normally come up in a rash on my arms which is allready here and i have been crying a lot more than normal with everything that has been going on around me i just hope i can last untill the new year then things will be looking better , i have decided to go back to the docs even though she didnt think she needed to see me untill the new year.
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Dec 05, 2005, 12:57 PM
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Hi, katheryn,
I'm really sorry to that you are feeling bad. It's a really stressful time of the year, isn't it? there are SO many expectations and pressures on us, especially parents. It's always a great time for me to review my shortcomings because I can't give my loved ones everything I want to! (Hey, if it's a good thing, I can always come up with a good reason to feel bad about it! LOL). Then there's all the stuff about the short days and all--I usually feel bad myself about now. I think I'll make it through another year, though, and I hope you will, too! thinking of you, DJ
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Dec 05, 2005, 01:17 PM
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this is the time of year where expectations run high. i try to avoid all of that and just go with what i can do. it's hard to do but it totally drags me under if i think about it too much....xoxoxo pat
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Dec 05, 2005, 04:34 PM
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Yes, I do believe this time of year is very crazy! It's like everybody loses their head! I'm trying to keep mine for now! I hope you hang in there and take care of yourself. I know how people's high expectations can really bring you down this time of year. My own expectations bring me down, and then everybody else's just drown me!
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Dec 05, 2005, 05:04 PM
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we normally feed the hubbys siblings and parents on boxing day , but that normally ends up to be about 16 ppl for dinner and tea this is my most stressfull day because we only have a small house and getting everyone to sit around the table takes up our whole lounge , so this year we have cancelled and have decided to go out to the local club.
this will be the first time in 14 + yrs that they wont be comming , and they only live up the road
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Dec 07, 2005, 03:37 PM
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i spent most of this last few days crying , i ended up back at the docs , she reasured me that im not getting worse but as she is treating me and my hubby who is worse than me , it was nice to talk to someone that nows wat is going on , i explained to her that i want some answers but hubby to poorly to give me that at the moment, she couldnt talk about hubby but she did listen and i found that inportant at the moment because i havent talked to any one about any of wats been going on recently , eventually hubby will be better and i will be able to talk some more to him but at moment i need to be a bit stronger to help him through this he seeing a cpn the doc and a counceller, so hopefully this all will help.
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