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Jul 25, 2011, 09:03 PM
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I have a lot going on right now a lot that has happened in my past that most people cant deal with.....I just want love and understanding but its hard when no one understands you...........I just want someone to listen to my problems and try to understand me...................I dont eat or sleep for real but Iv'e just kinda been around I have 4 beautiful kids and I want to be strong for them..........................I just want someone to listen and relate....
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Jul 26, 2011, 12:53 AM
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I know that feeling and I've honestly found most of my support here. If you need someone to talk to private message me!
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Jul 26, 2011, 01:58 AM
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I completely can relate to how you are feeling. My only really close friend was my ex and I no longer keep in touch with him. Sometimes I feel so alone my heart aches. I had to hug myself once just to feel that someone cared, even if it was myself. Now that's pretty sad. I have found much comfort posting here because I have found others who feel the same and another great thing is I can post everything that is in my heart without hesitation. It has helped me release a little of my pain.
btw, you mentioned you are not getting a lot of sleep, that can really be wearing on your emotions. I hope you can get a good night's sleep soon. Pls take care of yourself. |
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Jul 26, 2011, 06:40 AM
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Bless your heart ~ feeling alone is awful.
 Why not call your medical doctor and perhaps he can refer you to a good therapist? You really DO need someone to talk to -- a professional who will be able to help you with this. Your doctor might put you on an antidepressant too -- maybe just temporarily until you make some progress in therapy.Please let us know what happens, ok? And remember that you're NEVER alone -- there is always someone here who will talk to you. God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee 
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Jul 26, 2011, 06:58 AM
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i no what u mean if people would just listen. i dnt confide in family myself because they dnt understand and friends are the same. i have a friend who always bad mouths people with depression. she tinks if they got there heads out of there *** theyd b fine but its not like that at all. its hard to find some one who'll just listen and not talk
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Jul 26, 2011, 01:03 PM
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((((Rissaroo))))
A lot of us here can relate to that. And are more than willing to listen. I'm gonna ask too, do you have a therapist? Trying to deal with things from is no small task. It can feel scary sometimes. Are you sure people can't deal with it, or do you feel like it will be too much for people to deal with? Trying to deal with all these feeling and raise 4 kids is a big work load, and I understand that as a mother. We are all here to listen to you, and support you.  Anika |
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#7
Jul 28, 2011, 08:08 AM
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I more than relate to that feeling of no one understanding, that isolation. I am surrounded by family that loves me...I should never feel alone or depressed but I always do. To be so alone in a crowd, the odd one out where no one understands why you feel the way you do, act the way you do or cant do what they take for granted.
You are not alone in those feelings, I and many others feel the same way and are there for you if you need it. 
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#8
Jul 28, 2011, 11:30 AM
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 with LostinaCrowd.
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Jul 28, 2011, 12:01 PM
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I understand the way you feel. Taking care of 4 kids keeps you busy busy.......always taking care of others, I know it's hard but take time for your self even if it is just getting on here and posting! It is helping me to start taking care of me. You know the old saying...if mama ain't happy no one is!
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#10
Jul 30, 2011, 04:38 PM
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I was a successful educational practitioner with lots of qualifications,perfect family and no money worries. Now I'm physically disabled and dependent,got no cash and so depressed. My parents and family have no understanding of how I feel and nor do they care,only my husband knows the real me and I feel so guilty for the way I rely on him,so I sometimes say nothing. I know exactly what your saying by being strong for the kids,I'm always worrying about the effects my disability has on them. I'm currently seeing a psychiatrist who seems to think I have all the time in the world whilst he tries to diagnose me,he does not even attempt to treat my symptoms,even though I shouted at him to live with me for a week to see my mood swings lol. I even ring helplines just to vent my frustration on someone who will listen without prejudice,maybe that could be an option? Are you seeing someone? If not would you consider visiting your family doctor? Remember our children need us but we also need someone too! I'm always available if you need a chat. Take care Jk |
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