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Old Jan 14, 2006, 10:37 PM
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Old Jan 14, 2006, 10:42 PM
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oh.........i'm so sorry. don't beat yourself up. just figure out how to take care of yourself and do what you can about it. i know it hurts and affairs of the heart aren't ever easy...but you'll be okay. i've never loved two people at the same time, but i think i understand your feelings. i loved someone else while married to another man and that was a horrible period of my life. PM me if you want to...xoxoxo Pat
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 12:27 AM
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HEY there jmo ((((((( HUGS )))))))

What can I do for you.................. let ME help as you have done for me.

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Old Jan 15, 2006, 01:27 AM
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I hate delete...but I get the basic story here...I too am in love with someone I ought now be..it sucks
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 02:01 AM
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I feel torn. I feel guilt. I love my hubby with all my heart. just forget it. I cant deal with this right now. I just cant.

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Old Jan 15, 2006, 02:12 AM
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Jen...talk to me...
What is happening?
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 02:18 AM
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Youre dealing with it anyhow cause you are so upset so help us help you but see my PM..I think it would be ok

crazy as this sounds can you ask him some what if's or even say can I ??
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 02:48 AM
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He is gone now, left this morning. I didnt do anything while he was here. I suppose I did that right. Hubby doesnt understand the deep feelings for the other. He thinks sex is sex. He never understood that.

I am just really sad and blah. I am sleepy but dont want to close my eyes.

Im sorry for being such an %#@&#!
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 03:00 AM
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I really think hubby is the one you need to hash this out with and he did play with fire you both kinda did....you know it could be HIM having these feelings for someone else ...But man to have someone you care so much about come in say how he feels and go its a kick in the gut ((JMO))

I may be bad but I would be tempted to go solo with the dude..he may be milquetoast and not cake when he is one on one for any length
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 05:19 AM
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Hugs for you, Jenifer! I feel for you, hun! Thinking of you!

((((((((((((Jenifer)))))))))))

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Old Jan 15, 2006, 01:18 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((Jen))))))))))))))))) My heart hurts My heart hurts My heart hurts My heart hurts
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Old Jan 15, 2006, 01:26 PM
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So does mine. I am watching my last sibling drink himself to death. Don't think I can do much else but wait..

It helps to know that we are not alone in our hurtful worlds. I keep saying that this must all be part of God's plan. I dunno. Don't think I have the answers anymore. Just so heavy a burden. Tired of it! My heart hurts

God Bless! TGC
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