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Jan 18, 2006, 09:58 AM
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we just had a man come from the mortgage company tried to see if he could help, looked at our monies comming in not enough to cover every thing, only could advise us about what process the mortgage company would take,
so it looks like we willl lose the house but we wont be homless as we will get rehoused into rented acomadation as we have dependents , but my main concern is this hasnt been easy for hubby to sit and go through he looks very scared , i know he thinks this is his fault ,tried to reasure him hope the meds help him from feeling lost and he doesnt put himself in danger as at the moment i dont think his body would take it, im trying to be strong dont know how long this process will take could be weeks could be months
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Jan 18, 2006, 10:50 AM
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I am sorry xoxo Fuzzy
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Jan 18, 2006, 12:03 PM
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I can only imagine how stressful this must be for you both.
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Jan 18, 2006, 12:22 PM
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I went through this and yes, your husband will feel like a failure for a long time. All I could do, for my husband at that time for him, was to find some positive in this situation. But it will not be easy if he doesn't want to see it. Maybe he will.
You are going to start a new beginning. It can be scary but it is just a new path, a new direction, a new way yo go forward in life. Yes a home is important but not as important as the "meaning" of you both to be together wherever that is. Remember "You are not a failure" (((((((Katheryn))))))))))) |
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Jan 19, 2006, 03:07 AM
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thank you everyone for your support , i do have to look forward new start with the year we have had ,
for me moving away even if it is to another housing estate would be good because then i would be away from the destructive neighbour that lives in the house next door, oldest daughter hasnt seen her for about 3 mths now but getting her away will help as well , my only problem is sorting everything out trying to keep hubby involved , but not pushing him to much , as we have lived here for 14yrs there are lotsof things to go through clean out the rubish and pass on what we dont need, i have a couple of good neighbours that have been there for me but if they are my friends moving shouldnt end this, havent told the children yet waiting for a date, going to stay in the area for them thanks again for your support
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