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Really having a hard time with some irl things that right now I don't feel comfortable talking about. I want to dig a hole and stay there for a long long time. Preferably for ever. Not sure how much more hurt I can take right now

Oh, Fuzzybear, please don't go in a hole! Try hard to think of someone you could talk with about these things. If there really is no one available right now, maybe what I do when that happens to me will help: I write a letter to whomever I wish were here listening to me. I just pour it all out to them. I write & write & write ( usually cry & cry & cry too) until I'm limp usually. Often I'm so wiped out by it I fall asleep. Afterwards, though, I feel better.

If you're not a writing type, maybe you could imagine the special person being with you and tell them, out loud, just talk it out.

But please stay up here on top of the ground with us. I don't know you yet, but any bear who does the hula I sure want to know!

((((((( Fuzzybear! )))))))


Sometimes I wish there were a "redistribute pain" button here so we could take away some of the hurt from one another.

(((((Fuzzy))))) here to listen if you want to talk. I feel like that sometimes. I like closets, quite a bit actually. But what REALLY helps is if into that hole you bring a blankie, and some nice things in with you. Then it's not really a hole any more.



Maybe you need some you time to balance the irl things that are going on

Fuzzy.......you know I'm here for you. Whatever your need, I'll try to provide it. It hurts to see you hurting, dear friend. Know that I'm thinking of you. Don't go down too deep into that hole; better yet, don't dig one at all. Sending you hugs and love......always, grey

(((Fuzzy))) sorry you feel bad. I wish I could make it better. I'll sit with you and if you want to talk, I'll listen.