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Old Dec 18, 2011, 02:59 PM
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...If I ever wear out my welcome here, I think (or maybe it is just my insecurities again by being very sensitive and reading into things that arn't there, I dunno) that i have done so on another mental health message board with my more than average thread asking for help from others about my mental issues. People are starting to avoid me. Of course it is all my fault for being me
See my mother and father use to tell me that people hate to be around people who are any bit negative so I am very subconsious of that issue. I try to keep things positive but the longer I leave hurt and/or anxieties inside of me that hurts even greater. I guess it is cause my parents really didn't like when I complained about anything that affected me mentally. I am not one who looks for pitty, just support and kind advice.
Also, I have been told before that I am too serious and I was like What!.... if I was too serious I would not like stuffed animals and laughing.
Also I was told that men like girls who have "witty/flirty" come backs. I tried doing that and that caused my social phobia to increase, I feel like a hopeless cause when it comes to the type of man I want.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble, please just let me know if I wear out my welcome here, you can PM me and let me know if you want, I promise that I will leave, I don't want anyone annoyed with me on this board too cause I love it here.
I love this board and everyone here is so kind and very helpful. Thank you

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Old Dec 18, 2011, 03:06 PM
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...If I ever wear out my welcome here, I think that i have done so on another mental health message board with my more than average thread asking for help from others about my mental issues. People are starting to avoid me. Of course it is all my fault for being me
See my mother and father use to tell me that people hate to be around people who are any bit negative so I am very subconsious of that issue. I try to keep things positive but the longer I leave hurt and/or anxieties inside of me that hurts even greater. I guess it is cause my parents really didn't like when I complained about anything that affected me mentally. I am not one who looks for pitty, just support and kind advice.
Also, I have been told before that I am too serious and I was like What!.... if I was too serious I would not like stuffed animals and laughing.
Also I was told that men like girls who have "witty/flirty" come backs. I tried doing that and that caused my social phobia to increase, I feel like a hopeless cause when it comes to the type of man I want.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble, please just let me know if I wear out my welcome here, you can PM me and let me know if you want, I promise that I will leave, I don't want anyone annoyed with me on this board too cause I love it here.
I love this board and everyone here is so kind and very helpful. Thank you

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Old Dec 18, 2011, 03:20 PM
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Clouds_and_Sun wear out her welcome!? Can...not...get...mind...around...concept...
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In no way have you worn out your welcome here. Your parents have poisoned your mind with some very cruel messages and I hope that you are in therapy to undo the damange that they have done. If not, I suggest you get into therapy at your first opportunity. Message boards can only do so much to support you.

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Old Dec 20, 2011, 02:01 PM
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Dearest Clouds--please feel free to post as often and as much as you like. and please feel free to be as miserable and depressed as you like. I think the main thing is to get all your feelings out. If you keep them inside, they will only hurt you mentally and physically. and maybe something you post might help someone else feel not so alone? So please vent away
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((clouds and sun)) - you're welcome to post anytime, often as you like and what mood you're feeling.
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Old Dec 21, 2011, 04:58 PM
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Old Dec 21, 2011, 07:35 PM
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clouds_and_sun,

You couldn't wear out your welcome here if you tried

You are a great person and any guy in his right mind would be lucky to have you! Almost everyone has issues where they feel negative and it's about being around the right people that makes all the difference in the outcome of how you'll feel whether it's on here or friends and family in person.

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Old Dec 24, 2011, 09:43 PM
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Thank you all, your words have moved me to tears. I am having a hard time this Christmas season I am so glad to have you all as a friend and I love each and every one of you. ((hugs))
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