[Lyzzyy]

I feel extremely lonely. I lost my best friend and the love of my life, I feel like real friends don't exist, I don't have siblings, and I feel as down as I can feel. I am really trying to make things better for myself by reading a lot and being around people but nothing seems to work. I'm sorry, I just needed to let it out and I have no one to talk to

[MickG]

Sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved some years ago. I suppose we can have a horrible day together.

Here's hoping it gets better. Take care, Lyzzyy. I do hope things turn round for you.

[midget84]

I am so sorry Lyzzyy I'm just now starting to get out of the same feeling. It takes time for the pain of loss to ease but we are all here for you whenever you need it

[depressedalaskan]

Very sorry for your loses. I see that you are a young poster. Have you ever shared your thoughts with anyone before? Loneliness can be a hard place to be. If you can do what you are doing to get out with other people. Try not to get stuck with this loneliness as it can keep pushing you back and you my never want to share in anything. Coming here is a good idea but we all need humens around once in a while. You might also try reading a self help book on loneliness to get a few more ideas. Your local library should have some. Good luck, keep us posted, happy holidays....

[Wannabe_Kenny]

you have experienced loss of loved ones and are experiencing pain and lonelyness... and that is good! for you are a human being with feelings, don't ever think that there is anything wrong with that! for what would we be without our feelings...
i hate to use such cliche-sentences but: time will make you get over it. but only, if you don't give in to your sorrow and still have hope left.
u should try to spend time with other people and really try to get distracted from your problems (you can't have fun when you are always thinking about that), you may even have to force yourself to have fun
and with the time you'll discover another person who is worthy of deepening your friendship with him (but really take your time, for disappointments are crucial in your condition... and good friends are unfortunatley rare)

"I feel like real friends don't exist"
of course they do, they are hard to find but it's totally woth it once you found one.
when random people over the internet can show you that compassion, then surely there is a flesh-and-blood being near you, you may call a "real" friend after some time

i hope this helps you a bit